Becoming eligible for grace – By sharing their experiences/insights/understandings/answering the questions posed!

 

Becoming eligible for grace – By sharing their experiences/insights/understandings/answering the questions posed!

Udaya Bhanu, Bhagya Rekha, Kshitija, Aparna, Mona – Mogambo khush hua – for sharing this week – and so will be sending Reiki to you all 3 days from today!

Were you aware of receiving?

Sharing enriches a person like nothing else! Such an innocent act and yet has such a profound impact on our sadhan levels, emotional well-being, karma, returns that we get and the list continues …

Are you noticing the benefits of this sharing in your life/state of mind?

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also read: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/10/on-sharing-your-experiences.html       

On sharing your experiences

On sharing your experiences.....

When ever you have a good experience after any healing, share it with others and in blog.....

this is my oft repeated request and by now you must have got bored of it too.......i have explained its benefits too and yet for various reasons, it seems to be a hard task for many........

no need to write in paras, just simple words like 'did XYZ healing and had wonderful experience" also would do for start......

just validate your experience, accept that a certain healing benefitted you and share it with others......as i have repeatedly told you, it is not for my benefit.....i know what a healing does.....i know so i ask you to undertake certain healing at appointed time.......i know the benefits, experiences and its effects too.....

it is for fellow sadhaks you need to be encouraged that you need to share...

when you were low and you read some one's feedback, remember how it boasted you and you were on the track? Now that other person is low and you are high and your sharing of your experience would pep him up.....it is simple logic and fact.....

when you are low, someone is high and his energy and experience is your beacon of light and hope......

similarly, when you are high you share your experiences with others and someone who is low will be inspired.....

this is how a 'group dynamics' work and is beneficial if used right.......only if the other person who is low gets up can he again be high and may be you'll need that 'high' energy and booster from him to raise you up?

Think about it!

share, give each other hand to get up and walk again....

this journey is not an easy one......we'll falter many times. We'll fail more than once. We'll be depressed and low more often than not. The only thing that can help us to get up is others who are high cheering you up and talking about what's keeping them going.....

so i repeat, keep sharing, keep going, keep smiling, keep walking, fall ten times but get up 11 times........you are not sinners or sheeps.......you are souls divine and lions of Vedic land......

saathi haath badhana ek akela thak jayega milkar bhoj udhana - 

hey partner give me a hand, we would fall back, feel tired if alone, let's carry this burden together.....hey partner give me a hand......

and Bless the soul that knows to share even without having to remind every single time.....

On receiving for giving and sharing!

 

On receiving for giving and sharing! 

Mona, Kshitija, Swathi, Aparna, Supriya

Appreciate your participation in https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2862044755103556326&postID=6334596296945864980 

in going through old blog posts.....

Reiki sent your way......

Do Reply:

• Are you aware of receiving / benefit from receiving Reiki sent to you?
• If I have left any one from the list (including all the previous ones) let me know, I'll do the needful....
• Why are these posts called On receiving for giving and sharing! ? Any idea?
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Keep up the good work and be blessed for the same.....

Please also note: This was a one time thing......don't expect the same always! And yet, don't stop working from your end.....keep sharing and keep growing.....

A thank-you

i find lots of you sharing your views and experiences after reading the post on 'how your insights can benefit you and others'....

thank-you for the same.........

those of you who have started doing and going to continue please note the changes this would bring in you in coming 3-6 months.....you can time it too!

and then share those experiences with others..........

keep sharing, caring, sharing, growing, loving, sharing and smiling............

Grace healings - for sharing feedback!

 

Grace healings - for sharing feedback!

Swathi, kshitija, Mona receive Reiki for 3 days for sharing their feedback on their year long experiences – https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/12/year-end-2024.html?showComment=1735996768566

By this simple act they have shown that they are ready to give (even it be just feedback) to one who is slogging all through the year to write for you. It shows they are just not TAKERS in a relationship. And that is the most important attitude to develop in inter-personal relationships. We get to develop and express these attitudes in such scenarios. We can believe (Wrongly) and assume we give in a relationship but in simple day to day activities our real nature expresses itself.

This is a long journey. Just having this is not enough. On daily basis how they work on it and develop it decides how much love they receive in life.

YOU RECEIVE WHAT YOU GIVE!

Have any excuse, but a simple feedback clearly states ‘the way we act in our relationships’.

We receive what we receive because of who we are!

So beware! Your every act counts!

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# grace healings, 

also read https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/10/on-sharing-your-experiences.html 

Becoming eligible for grace! - By participation!

 

Becoming eligible for grace! - By participation!

Swathi, Kshitija, Aparna, Bhagya, Mona, Sridhar, Udayabhanu - by regularly sharing your experiences/observation/understandings/insights/practices have become entitled to receive Reiki from me - for next ONE WEEK FROM TODAY TILL 8TH ........

Few may get a doubt "What is big about sharing? Why extra reiki to them?"

Well, if you look at the periphery it looks like a very simple and an act not worth mentioning or noticing....but to me, there is 

1. discipline followed - of doing sadhan.

2. Addressing the fear of talking/typing in the foreign language

3. Addressing the fear of expression

4. Appreciating each other and thereby developing the attitude of selflessness, validating the good in other, addressing the jealousy in self

5. Learning and getting inspired by the other's journey and experiences and applying it next time when the chance arises/immediately many times too.....

6. Sharing with others what one knows and has learnt

7. cheering others when they succeed or when they achieve something

8. Encouraging others when they are low, in doubt, or have lost hope...

9. When you share your knowledge/experiences, you realize how much you have the capacity to give. You realize you are so rich that you are able to give to others. You recognise the power of giving that is within you. 

Your one comment can help you address so many of issues in self...and I appreciate you taking this bold step to express yourself through this blog and wanting/trying to overcome your fears and limitations....

Kudos to that and to that jazbaa - sentiment, I am sending reiki validating it, appreciating it and cheering for you....

# sharing, caring, on love, receiving what we want, abundance, overcoming fear, enlarging our world, 

Points to ponder:

Why people who shared this week are receiving? Why not those who did it in the past?

We never know when the doors of the heavens open to shower grace and blessings! We are not entitled to that! We can't demand that! We won't get it by demanding/crying and complaining. We receive it when we are available when the door opens to give. And that's why the old and wise have always said "Be prepared always! Be on the path, doing your job sincerely, honestly, regularly. You can only be doing your job. You never know when HIS grace descends! don't be sleeping when it does! 

Becoming eligible for grace – by being selfless!

 

Becoming eligible for grace – by being selfless!

Sridhar receives appreciation and returns for selflessness that he exhibited vide  https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2023/10/becoming-eligible-for-grace-by-sharing.html?showComment=1697587044208… by way of Reiki from me….

I am also sending reiki to that woman and her son for the next three days to come….

I am also sending Reiki to all the homeless people in the world – this I do by doing “Earth Healing” for the next one week – till Dassera 23..i.e., 24^th of this month!

This to me is the real and true Dassera and festive spirit. Sharing and wishing what I have with the one who doesn’t!!!

This Reiki is sent on a regular basis by me, but during ongoing wars and other calamities, this intention takes a back seat!  But, when someone shares their observation or their actions, then memory recall happens and “forgotten action” is continued – again!

In appreciation of that remainder, I will send Reiki to Sridhar for 2 days.

In appreciation for that selflessness, I will send Reiki for 3 days.

And for sharing it, 2 days.

And for acting out of love and for that presence of mind, will send for 2 more days!

This time reiki will be sent for one reason after the other – not parallel as before!

Now, what is it that touched you in this experience?

The common response would be "maam, i am also going to send reiki for the same" - really? Is that all that can be done?

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# homelessness, despair, sharing and caring, on being human, kindness, appreciating human life, on life and its bare facts, greed, problems and solutions,     

also read: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=coffee+on+the+wall       

Grace healings – for commitment

 

Grace healings – for commitment

Swathi receives Reiki for 3 days – for being in sadhan regularly and also for giving regular feedbacks.

I am also with you in this sadhan as promised (till date) – with both hands on and re-birth mediation every single day.

 

People want to be treated ‘as special’. This is one such attitude that gets you that special treatment – be it with a person or with the Universe/Reiki/God.

Those who ASSUME they deserve based on their priorities suffer negativity and cynicism saying “they are not being treated right or that others are getting more than what they deserve”.

When in actuality, everyone gets what he deserves.

Not everyone may get what he desires, but all receive depending on their karma or worthiness.

Increase your worthiness to receive by developing qualities that attract ‘these special treatments’ from the Universe/Guru/God.

These “Grace healings” are one way of showing how our every quality and which quality qualifies us to become worthy of receiving that ‘extra’ from the Divine.

Be smart. Choose the right lesson from these updates and grow wisely and walk towards abundance.

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# sharing and giving, you receive what you give, sharing experiences, growing with sharing, 

also read https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2016/11/thank-you.html 

Me, My Guru – on keeping count in love

 

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Me, My Guru – on keeping count in love

It was here that he heard the milkmaids talk. He found his answer and solution. “Even a simple village girl knows how to love!” she doesn’t keep count of the milk that she gave her lover. For that girl even little money matters. And yet, she does not keep trail of ‘how much milk her lover had drunk”. She knew how to love. Such purity in love! Such simplicity in conduct! Such clarity in her vyavahara (loosely translated it is behaviour). If that is her conduct in love with a mortal, how much more better should mine for my lover be who is the ‘Ultimate lover – God!’?” so saying he returned into the jungle to resume his tapas (penance). Our Guru left to attend her personal calls.

We were left to discuss among ourselves. We enjoyed this part of our sessions. This helped us to share our opinions, insights, observations and experiences with one another. We learned from each other. If not, we would go with only our understanding. But when shared, we actually benefited more. Some of us were selfish even in this area! They kept mum most part of the day, but wanted others to contribute to groups talks. These silent people benefited from others’ experiences and explanations. And yet, they weren’t open enough to give and share their understanding and experiences. Therein lay their flaw in their attitude. It didn’t ‘seem’ bad but was not doing them any good. In fact, the people who didn’t share with others were the slow learners and absorbents of this learning. Yes, Rahul and gang benefited most all because of this one quality! Their nature to share their knowledge paved way to receive more of the same back into their life! Isn’t it simple?

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# on love, on loving, sharing and caring, affections, relationships, attitude needed for relationship to be perfect, business vs relationship, on living life, life partners, expectations and conditions, unconditional love, 

also read : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=monk+and+the+scorpion 

Read the above link to understand what giving and receiving is in a relationship....read why we need to forgive our family of their little flaws...read to know how and how much to forgive too.....

Tips to understand the post : 

“Even a simple village girl knows how to love!” she doesn’t keep count of the milk that she gave her lover." - We assume we need to learn from the rich, famous and the learned to love and live life perfectly. But that 'knowledge' isn't taught in any business school. It comes from the purity in intent, character and innocence. Many a times, love is lived by simple people for they are simple in character. With 'the mind that knows to think and be smart' comes cunningness in character that we are proud of as 'intelligence'. And that intelligence and that mind of ours robs us of the ability to love and be loved....

"It didn’t ‘seem’ bad but was not doing them any good." - Not sharing is not a bad attitude. And yet it slowed our learning and decided on our growth. See that with open eyes! Look into it! Meditate on that! A simple act like sharing can make so much difference in your self and healing happens in so many ways - just like that! And yet, we stop ourselves from doing that! At least, do you know why you do so? Don't justify your nature/act/ behaviour.....instead, sit in meditation and question it.....

For August 15th 2022

 

For August 15th 2022

Independence Day

As done once before (read the link given below) let's do sadhan to commemorate this wonderful day in the history of our country....

This year is so much more special for being 75th year of Independence. So many fought, died and suffered for us to enjoy this Independence today!

And even today so many soldiers and defense personnel are posted in Godforsaken places of extreme cold and hot weather places. Those places don't have any basic comforts. They don't get to eat our 'bajjis, pizzas, icecreams and what not!' ...yet they are serving and doing their duty for mere salaries just out of love for the people of this country which means so much to them....

We don't even know their names. They don't know that we exist and yet our existence is totally and totally dependent on their sacrifices only - not to belittle the sacrifice of their families....

Let's appreciate their acts of dutifulness, service, love for country and selfless acts with doing Reiki for them.

Let's send Reiki to all our defense forces as a form of gratitude for their service to our Nation.

Our Guruji's Birthday!

August 15 being our Guruji's birthday - let's celebrate it in every way we want to. Cut a cake or Make sweets in your homes...share it with one and all....

Distribute minimum packets of say 3-5 at least of food to the people on street......show them our Guruji's photo and tell them it is His Birthday....(this is optional - those who are afraid of telling or sharing the same need not do) - just distribute in such cases....

Sadhan Procedure

We can do it two ways -

1.Send Reiki to our Guruji and other Gurus like Mahavatar Babaji, Guru Govind Singh, Paramacharya, Ramanujacharya and so on daily from 10-1015pm (or any other time convenient to you)

and

2. Chant MM 108 malas from today till 5th Sep 2022 (next month - it being Teachers Day). And we will dedicate the same to all these people.

Request 

Please count the number of malas and tell me the number at the end of this sadhan day. I need that to close the sadhan....

Sending wishes to you all for making this choice and for strength to be able to complete the sadhan as undertaken by you all effortlessly...

May you all enjoy this process of being grateful to the above as always and more....

# August 15th, Dr.Mikao Usui, Independence Day, Gratitude to Gurus, being thankful to our frontline workers and fighters, on being grateful, giving and sharing, on healing self, on healing others, on using Reiki to clear our debts, sharing and healing is love, Universal oneness, We are the World!

also read suggested : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=august+15th

Few more tips about this blog

Few more tips about this blog

It’s often mentioned “It was a wonderful story. Never heard of it before?” So coming to stories in this blog (Or me, my Guru series) They are from three sources broadly speaking.

1. One, of course that is clearly evident is from Hindu Mythology and Puranas. Many stories from Epics of Hinduism namely Mahabharat and Ramayan are take and told to explain certain aspects of our life and its situations. That way, it becomes easier for the reader to also see that they are just not some stories that ought to be read out of blind belief – but are ‘guides’ that explain how we are to handle ourselves and our situations of life! Many people including Indians read these scriptures out of faith and then keep it aside! That is not the purpose of these scriptures. They are to be ingested in our way of thinking living and dealings in life. Only when that happens, can we take pride in our treasure trove of knowledge passed on by our ‘Seers’. Unlike other religions of the world, nowhere in Hinduism, we are told to behave as ‘blind sheep or sinners’. We are ever asked to realize our ‘real divinity’ and act in accordance with that ‘Divine’ that is in all of us!

I also write stories from ‘Upanishads’ which are dear to me in so many ways!

                                 

2. The second set of stories is anecdotes and fables taken from all over the world. 

3. Third, are the stories which have been written for the first time ever – solely for the purpose of this blog – many times fresh off the oven – meaning I had written and posted it simultaneously. ‘Stories and All’ series especially belongs to this category.

Sometimes, I have developed a sentence I heard or a joke I liked into a story for you. Well, whatever is the source; remember story is just the medium used to drive home the point. It was used to show the possibility of living ‘an attitude or a character’. It was to show how mind and ego work towards creating hell for us and how we get entangled in it. It also is to show how and what techniques we are to apply to come out of this quagmire of ‘self-inflicting disease’ of ‘self-destruction’! It is to help us to ‘aware’ of our ‘slip areas’. It is to point us our fall or remind us of our weakness – the causes and effects of such weakness and how to overcome it too! If you like and remember the story only, the whole purpose is lost!  But...

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Points to be taken :

• Every thing has a purpose. WE need to seek it to know it. 

• When we assign 'value' good or bad to everything we read we miss out of getting what it has to offer us! We need to empty our hearts of its tastes for our minds to receive from it!
• Even when we read, we read out of ego and hence need to be told the same story again and again by the Universe to drive home a point.