Fight once more!!!

 

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Fight once more!!!

If you are married and with kid, think twice before jumping into decisions. Any decision taken effects not only you but also the kid for ever....if all you had was to think about yourself then why bring a child into this world? Child is not 'the candy' or a 'leverage' against your partner. Don't use them as so! Child is not raised to get even with in-laws too! Don't work on their accomplishments so that you can show them off to the world....

Only right we have over child is to love and take care of them. Everyone who gives birth doesn't become a good parent automatically. Think about it!

In marriage we think we are fighting with the other to stay married. NO, my dear, we are fighting with our ego (all the parties involved) to stay married. Then who should let go off their ego? The one who is right or one who is wrong would be the usual question.....I would always have only one answer - "The one who loves more should let go and make all efforts to heal and mend the situation"

Similarly, in the battle with ‘self’ everytime we make a commitment to do ‘regular sadhan’ we fail within couple of days. That’s ok! Just don’t stop there! Start over again. You are losing to your own self. See, the ‘winner’ is also you ONLY. So, where is the question of shame, anger, feeling bad, thinking ‘I don’t have it in me’ etc…? Every time you give up or stop the sadhan, the moment you realize, start it again. It doesn’t matter how many times you stop, break or fail. Get up more number of times than that! Make getting up your nature. ‘Not a quitter’ should be your tag line.

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