Thursday, November 25, 2021

Shift in relationships

 

Shift in relationships


Aksar hum yeh dekhte hai ki log apne rishte ke shuruaat mein kaafi achcha aur sachcha mehsoos karthe hai…

Unhe sab kuch achcha  achcha lagtha hai…

Aur samay ke jaathe jaathe hi wah rishta khalne logthi hai….

Yeh dosh rishtey ka nahin hai…yeh dosh haalath aur kismet ka bhi nahi

Phir yeh dosh kiska hai?

अक्सर हम यह देखते हैं की लोग अपने रिश्ते के शुरुआत में काफी अच्छा और सच्चा महसूस करते हैं। .. 

उन्हें सब कुछ अच्छा अच्छा लगता है.... 

और समय के जाते जाते ही वह रिश्ता खलने लगती है.... 

ये दोश रिश्ते का नहीं हैं। .ये दोश हालात और क़िस्मत का भी नहीं। .. 

फिर ये दोश किसका हैं ?


we often see that people at the start of any relationship often feel good and truthful...

they feel good about everything ...

but as time passes the same relationship seems to get on our nerves...

the fault is neither in the relationship nor of fate...

then whose fault is this? have you thought about it?


కొత్త కొత్త లో ఏ relationship లో నైనా అంత బాగుంటుంది. అంతా చాలా మంచిగా అనిపిస్తుంది.... 

కాన్ని సమయం గడిచే కొద్దీ అదే relationship శాపం అనిపిస్తోంది, ఎంతో బాధ ఇస్తోంది 

ఈ దోషం ఆ పరిస్థితులదో గాని విధి దో  గానిది ... 

మరి తప్పు ఎవరిది ? ఆలోచించారా? 





1 comment:

V Sridhar said...

Relationships are fertile grounds to discover who we are.

Our nature gets reflected in the other and at some point of time when our relationship takes a beating, our ego is hurt... we feel let down. When there is expectation there is bound to be disappointment also...as behind the expectations are our own motives..
We are equally responsible and at fault too for what's happening & when we don't accept our contribution or folly in the relationship, we suffer...

When we are honest & brave to face that,  we can replace expectations with acceptance of the other, ourself & the situation... we can then grow out of the relationship or even resolve it with understanding and awareness...