Need for pain

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Need for pain

Our belief should not be a cause of pain, suffering or trouble to others. Remember that always!

Trust, but also be alert and cautious.

I trust REIKI but that doesn’t mean I would keep pushing Reiki to prove its existence by lighting a lamp and placing it at crossroads with a condition ‘if Reiki IS, the lamp will light come what may’. Know the difference between ‘belief’ and ‘Stupidity’. Stupidity can also be based on arrogance - beware of that!

Our belief and trust should make us calm during such tough times. They should make us pillar of strengths for the people in our lives. Belief means I play my trust but don’t condition the outcome of my prayer!

Now, this post is not only for this pandemic situation. It also applies to every ‘tough’ or ‘testing situation’ in our life.

We may be going through some testing situation in our –

a.physical level – meaning we may fall sick or be living with some ailment, disturbance in our health, experiencing some sort of pain or discomfort in our daily routine.

b.Relationship level – our personal relationships may be on the verge of sinking maybe. Maybe, we are going through some tough differences of opinion or tough fights. Maybe, we are not on talking terms with our near and dear ones.

c. Financial level – This pandemic is throwing surprises of all sorts on all levels. Finance could be the most common one of them!

d. Emotional level – Fear, fights, depression, anger, frustration and what on could be our emotional state due to various reasons now. You may feel you are going crazy. You feel being torn apart. The good news is so it is for many. When there is storm in the ocean, people in even big ships are thrown and tossed around quite often than not! No one is comfortable during ‘storms’ in ship – be it even as I Class passengers!

So instead of crying about it, complaining about it, use it to your advantage. Your emotions are your thermometer. It indicates your state of mind and where the problem is! Just sit to heal that problem area and you’ll come out of this ‘tough times’ a better, stronger, calmer person than you can imagine today! DO NOT LET GO OFF THIS PERIOD OF HEALING YOURSELF! Trust me on this!

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# pain and suffering, desire and its fulfillment, destiny, twists and turns of life, life - a miracle, unfolding of life events, everything happens for a reason, everything happens for good, 

also read suggested : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=little+boy 

Questions addressed : 

• My emotions are killing me. How do I tackle them?
• How can tough times be beneficial for anyone for that matter?
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Points to be understood : 

• When life throws a googly at you, how do you bat that? (googly is a term used in game cricket )
• "But I don't want to do anything. I just want this 'bad time' to vanish through some magic. I don't want to learn anything. I don't want to heal it. I am fed up of being forced to change for my good" - Good for you! But there is nothing much anybody - even God can do for such a mindset!
• Heal and transform. Those who transform transcend.
• Those who are stuck with their mindset are eventually wiped out. 
• How come 'logical mind' like yours not get it. You believe and propogate 'Darwin's theory of survival of the fittest' - right? 

Aarthi - this is not about you...........