Various times of life!

 

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Various times of life!

At times, all one needs is a break!

At times, all one needs is to be left alone!

At times, all one needs is acceptance.

At times, all one needs is a little push and bam!

If you have no such person – good! Look into your emotions. Find them. Seek their reason to exist and then heal them! Bam! The purpose of those emotions is fulfilled. That is the reason for a pain to exist – that you realize that there is an area that is bothering you. Then seek what is bothering you and then address it and then heal it and send it away from you.

At times, all one needs is a break down situation to transform him and his life.

And the best thing about all this is that no time stays so for ever. You may be in any of such 'times' in your life - be with it as it longs.

Now, you have made pain reason to heal pain. Now you have used pain to outgrow it. Now you have used that ‘logic’ of yours the right way! Now, the purpose of understanding is fulfilled. Now you are working towards your fulfillment and happiness.

So, what are you waiting for?

Do the needful!

Pain is the weakness seeking to be released from the body and mind - it is not an excuse to sit and cry! Remember that always!

Points to understand :

• Every pain has a purpose. It has an agenda to fulfill. When you look into it and heal it, the pain and the cause of pain - both get addressed and healed. The situation that caused the pain to exist also gets healed and we become free from 'that particular pain' and 'of that dosage'. This is the freedom which is a possibility with each one of us. 
• Pain if seen as an unnecessary and distasteful relative, all we are doing is getting irritated, angry, depressed, sad, hateful and doing wishful thinking that it goes away. 
• No wishful thinking can send pain or its perpetrators away from our life.
• We can use pain to outgrow it or sit and complain about it and seek pity and attention towards us. Our choice writes our destiny.

Questions addressed :

• What is the purpose of this pain right now in my life?
• Is there a purpose to pain also in life?
• What and how does my pain talk to me? What is it telling me?

Wrong use of logic and understanding :

Danger spot - It is clearly stated as 'all one needs is ...' - the great mind will immediately start the complain and accusation "yes maam, that is what I need and you are not giving me that....". I clearly stated that all one needs is....I didn't say "Every need is to be addressed with its demands or that I am here to fulfill every want and need of yours ". So beware of this line of thoughts. You can still entertain it. Your mind your thoughts! 

Every thought that crosses your mind is not right.

Every desire that drives you crazy is not anyone's duty to fulfill.

Every accusation is not a question to be addressed. 

Knowing each from the other is clarity of thought and the secret to be happy. 

Assuming what one thinks is right is the basis of suffering and pain.