On dependence, being independent and the hierarchy.....
आँसूं निकल आये तो ख़ुद ही पोंछ लेना
वगरना लोग उसका कारोबार बना देंगे।
If your eyes shed tears, wipe it yourself
for if you expect others to do that for you, they would make business out of that....
OR
when you break down, get up on your own
for if you wait for others they would make business out of that....
share your understanding, experience on the same.....
1 comment:
I have come across such people in every aspect of life (friends, coworkers, relatives), where the person whose shoulder I cried on has gone around telling people how they have helped me. I felt a sense of betrayal because they not only disclosed my personal matters to others but also used my vulnerability as their opportunity to promote self.
But, when I sat back and thought about it I figured that it was me who refused to keep my inner strength. When I betrayed myself, then how can I expect others to do the right thing for me. The attitude I attracted from others was the attitude I had within.
I just had to correct my attitude. When I showed courage, that’s when the right kind of people came into contact with me on their own and showed me the answer or their presence itself removed the obstacles. There was no need to ask.. it just happened naturally.
Thanks,
Supriya
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