Being eligible for grace – for going that extra mile in sadhan on your own!

 

Being eligible for grace – for going that extra mile in sadhan on your own!

 

Further to “https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2023/11/being-eligible-for-grace-for-going-that.html good work Swathi Keep going!!!

I am with you on this!!! https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2015/10/walk-alone-if-need-be-but-never-leave.html

Whatever your experience, see it as “passing clouds” and keep moving on. Don’t associate yourself with any feelings, experiences, or observations and feel proud or sad. Just keep going!

Nothing remains so forever.

Everything changes. https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2021/07/fact-about-world_0308168032.html

That is the ‘taraka mantra’.

Change is inevitable.

Change is the only constant.

Change is for sure.

Don’t get attached to any experience and try to relive it or desire it to continue.

Everyone and everything leaves you at some point in time. So, keep going! So, walk alone!

That’s all there is to sadhan – change in experiences, feelings, understandings, observations.

Keep going on! https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2012/11/reflections.html 

 

 

Milestones – Lesson from this year’s (2022) milestones crossed!

Milestones – Lesson from this year’s (2022) milestones crossed!

5 months of this year, the performance was bad – or I would rather say pathetic! The number of posts were very poor ranging from 5, 9 to 14, 15…..five important months and lost for what so ever be the reason….and yet we achieved a target of a sizable number of posts for this year – 280  ….It was worth all the work because of your participation and cheering.......you got what you asked for...if you didn't want it then this wouldn't have happened...so this achievement is ours - for sure!

What does it teach us?

Many times in life, things don’t go as planned. Figures don’t match with our planned ones. Yet, in the overall picture it works out well – almost always for everyone!

Don’t fret. Don’t lose hope. Don’t get frustrated or tensed. Even if things go slow or haywire at some point of time, at the end they all figure out well……as seen by us over the years…..

Keep up the morale, keep working on self and situations, keep healing and be right with attitude. Keep working on your attitude and keep changing for better. Address issues the right way. Eventually, everyone will come around for good…..

Relax, life isn’t as bad as it seems. 

Enjoy, the ride is not as frightful as you assume it would be. 

Hope, for that brings cheer in the work that needs to be done. Laugh, for you wouldn’t be able to go back in time to laugh when things finally fall in place….

Life with all its turns and twists doesn’t end on a painful note – it continues till it sets everything right….So whatever be the station of life you are in, know it to come out right if you keep up the good work and with right attitude and intention....be it financial, physical well-being, mental strength, issues in family or spiritual aspect...just keep going, keep healing and you will touch the finish line well...

Let's begin the coming year with this mental makeup and make the most of the time to come....

The coming year will bring its set of challenges, tears and hick-ups along the way. That's its job. Let us not be angry or afraid of the coming year for the role it is going to play as per its schedule.

Let's change our perspective on things and life. Let's strengthen ourselves. Let's bring our reserves and put them to good use. Let's be ready for everything. Let's take a firm stand that we'll enjoy life's ups and downs. 

If one among us is frightened, let's resolve to stand by him. If one among is weak, let's support him. If one decides to give up his fight, let's cheer him up to keep going! 

Let's make a promise to ourselves that we'll make this year momentous - not because it would be easy, but because we showed a stronger side of ourselves to ourselves. Let's hold each other's hands and give strength to one another. Let's move forward together. Together we are going to reach the touchline at the end of the year with smiles, memories, and weaknesses that we have overcome. 

Let's welcome Year 2023!

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on wishes unfulfilled - Me, My Guru

...contd....

He had touched rock bottom and he couldn’t go any more down! He started doing Ads left and right. He took up every job that came his way. He didn’t rest inspite of his age. He worked non-stop – day and night. People criticised him for doing all types of Ads inspite of his ‘Super Stardom’. He didn’t let that stop him. Don’t you think it must have hurt him to be talked about so. At the height of his career and fame, he sees the worst side of people and their hurtful words. But he bounced back. Yes, just keep going. The money you earn may seem meagre to pay back the debt that you have – yet keep going! 

Trust me when you put your best foot and intention forward, the Universe and God collaborate to help you and get you out of the mess that you bought yourself to due to your karma. Yes, be in sadhan, keep up the torch of hardwork going and don’t stop hoping. Believe me – “This too shall pass!”. One day you’ll look back and be glad that you walked this path. Now you know what you are capable of. If you earned enough to pay back 10lakh loan in 5yrs, it means you are capable of earning that much which you didn’t know till then! But for this situation, you never would’ve realized your real potential. Now that you know it – expand your

dreams and earn enough to live your dreams. See to that that this bad time makes you a better person. Don’t let the person/situation that brought you to this make you a bitter person. Come out this storm as a more calmer person, more cheerful, more confident and compassionate person. Beat the situation. Embrace Life! Smile through this time and come out victorious and a stronger person – it is within you and you can. Just decide to – you can!”

When she mouthed such words, we felt totally geared up to face the situation, but it was when we went back to our lives that we depression, fear, uncertainty looming large in our lives. Wish we could carry her with us –always! These words from Lakshmi’s mouth also had same effect on us. We never realized that it was Lakshmi who was reading out what our Guruji had once told her. This really was sort of creepy. And there she was sitting and listening to her own words all this time. But her eyes were closed, so was she actually listening? Or meditating?

We all discussed on what Lakshmi had shared with us. We gave various examples and situations and were trying to gauge ‘its’ applicability from every angle and in every situation. It was then that she opened her eyes and said “this girl came with one problem and you are discussing on some other problem”.

To which that girl came to our rescue and said “no, Guruji. This issue is universal and I too face financial problems on and off in my life. It more or less is perennial. Thanks to them, I received answers to that crisis of my life too today! Now, I know where I need to correct what correctly. Yes, I know it would take time to put all this into practise and see results but I am sure the wait and the effort put in would be worth the name. You please tell me how to deal with this problem of mine?” We blessed her silently for coming to our rescue. Rahul and Priya suggested silently sending Reiki for that girls’ intention of raising a family and we started doing it immediately. We were so lost in listening our Guruji’s explanation that we didn’t even realize that we had sent Reiki to her the whole time. Good for her!

“First of all, stop calling it ‘a problem’. It is not. It is your dream, your desire but certainly not a problem. So, you ask what do I do to fulfil my dream or why isn’t my desire getting fulfilled? You are

saying you are doing FBR (Full Body Reiki) regularly. Good! But you also are depressed. Now that sort of contradicts what you said earlier. If your FBR is true, then you should be cheerful not depressed. It can mean that all the reiki that you receive while doing FBR is going just to heal ‘this depression’ of yours and nothings’ left to flow, towards your wish fulfilment – as you say you are depressed inspite of doing reiki. Remember, reiki goes to heal the ‘first issues first’. So do re-birth with depression and such feeling that you have regularly till it is healed. Also consciously work towards cheerfulness. If you are free, work of spend time in orphanage/old age home/hospital – just about anywhere where you realize what big problems exist elsewhere. Not having something of your choice or desire is a pain of one type. But having something like terminal disease or lifelong disease like diabetes, thalasaemia, being crippled etc is a totally different level of pain altogether. When we look at people being cheerful with such pain, we realize our blessed we are! Nothing cheers us more than being of some use to others – so volunteer. It addresses both this issues. 

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Grace healings - Spring cleaning – feedback

 

Grace healings - Spring cleaning – feedback

While I appreciate any form of feedback, observations made, experiences and understandings shared, this had been one of the best ones in terms of clarity of thought, precision and vividity. https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/12/on-spring-cleaning.html

And to show the happiness, appreciation, and validation of the same, I sent “Grace healings” to all three for the past one week.

Every growth in each one of you is celebrated by the “right kind of person” who desires your growth in the right direction for no benefit of his.

Every growth is appreciated always by the Universe.

Every growth represents the amount of healing you have done.

Every clarity of thought represents the chunk of healing done and its impact on your perspective, understandings and application in your life.

You all must of noticed how I share some questions “asked either by student in the story or randomly in pointers” that are fundamentally common and reflects the lowest or lower strata of thought process. That is the point from which the journey of our understanding starts. And you three have shown how much one can grow in that area.

At the same time, don’t let arrogance get into your head.

Don’t think this is the Olympic Gold. Oh, NO! It is just the beginning. There is lots to be covered in this area and lots of work needs to be done too for the same. So, buckle up, enjoy the appreciation but do not become complacent. Hold your seat and keep up the speed and if possible even increase it a bit (even 5 mts of extra healing would be good enough for the start).

Next year, who knows what that healing would have healed and how your clarity of thought would have been impacted??!!

Good going!

Keep going!

But, still a long way to go! Keep walking, keep healing and keep smiling!

All the wishes for your better tomorrows to come!

(Though this wish for the three among you all, it applies to every person who has been healing and who needs to keep healing)

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On growth and effect of healing!

 Contd.....

On growth and effect of healing!

One who ‘sees’ where his problem is when he looks within has lit the light of ‘clarity of thought’. One who realizes that fault is within but struggles to correct it are many. Keep working. Keep healing with consistent. You’ll reach clarity of thought faster than it seems to you. Just be with it!

But the ones whose mind is making them adamant and not letting them see reason are the ‘brave heroes’. Their journey is long and tedious.

Any 80% student can get 90% if he puts in little more effort. Any 60% student can score 80% with under teacher to guide and right incentive to make them work. But the student who gets marks in single digits – even if he gets 50% his journey is commendable. Such a student I’ll sing praises of again and again in my life story.

This is the student who uses every person in his life to material benefits. And his ever going complaint for suffering is “…but I don’t have XYZ in my life to love etc…” Poor child! He never can love anyone – not even himself. He can only use people for his personal gain and to fulfill his physical and material fulfillment. No doubt he is ever lonely crying!

But, dear one – don’t lose heart. Keep healing. With all the anger and hatred keep healing.  It may take years even to go one notch up in right direction – yet keep up the good work – boring it is and yet keep healing. The sun rises for all – remember that!

Concluded....

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# growth due to healing, growth in healing, healing, attitude, change of character, no healing goes waste.....

also visit previous post : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=August+15th 

Point to be noticed :

• Never ever compare your growth with any other person. 
• Comparison only brings pain.
• Compare yourself of yesterday with today! Just keep looking at your own growth. That will give you clear picture of your journey and achievements.
• People who start with more luggage than others are bound to go slow in the journey. It takes them more time to unload themselves. Don't feel bad if you are one of them!
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  Keep working - keep healing and most important take pride in being in sadhan inspite of all the pain this process gives you. Yes, knowing and accepting one's own flaws is the most painful and difficult task on Earth. Your courage helped you to keep walking till date. Hold on to it. Hear others cheer for you as you tread this path.
• Whatever is the attitude you choose to drop or pickup - that's your call. Don't look at others or their choices. You work as per your pace and choice. Just don't compare the results also with others. That's all!
• No sadhan ever goes waste. Now that you have reiki and a supportive environment utilize it to the fullest. Don't stop. Don't let this opportunity of self-healing go by. This sadhan doesn't give you benefits just for this life - but it effects all of your future lives too! so be with it!

Listening to birds chirping as I am posting this......it's like having a background music while I work......wow!

Me, My Guru – Virochana and Indra

 

Contd.....

Me, My Guru – Virochana and Indra

Similarly, people who want instant gratification and instant results are strengthening their asuric nature. By developing these qualities in us we develop ‘asura’ within us. We strengthen the ‘asura’ within us.

Look at Indra. He doesn’t stop at answers that ‘pleases’ him and questions his understanding. Indra knew that any answer that indicates or facilitates only comfort wouldn’t be the ‘right answer’. He searched for the ‘right answer’.  He is ever ready to look within. He doesn’t want to compromise till he has found the complete ‘Truth’. He is not ready to go easy in learning and stop learning, questioning in between.

He is ready to sacrifice ’32 years’ to know further. Patience is a ‘daivic nature’. Any ‘real learning’ needs time. Instant learning, easy learning, or quick learning reflects ‘no learning’.

At every stage, when Indra is asked to stay back for 32 more years, he agrees without batting his eyes. He doesn’t demand an explanation from his Guru in the guise of asking for clarification as “Why didn’t you tell at the beginning itself that there were stages and each would take 32 years to finish? At least in the future tell other students so that they are not kept in dark”.

He didn’t think he was entitled to the Knowledge that his Guru had. He didn’t assume he had the right to take all as and when and how he pleased.

Contd.....

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Pointers to understand this post:

" Similarly, people who want instant gratification and instant results are strengthening their asuric nature. " - Being impatient is an asuric nature. Look at yourself as you go through your day. If this quality is found, take time to sit and understand the root of this impatience. Work on it. Counter it with patience.

" At every stage, when Indra is asked to stay back for 32 more years, he agrees without batting his eyes. " Patience is a Godly virtue. Have patience to do sadhan. Have patience to wait for results. Lord Indra is ready to stay 32 years every single time his Guru asks him to. And people are ever asking for NEW TECHNIQUES  to come for class! What a pity!! No one till date have I seen who has understood any single technique through practice and experience. 

Don't keep going from one master to the other!

Don't keep going from one class to the other!

Don't keep jumping from modality of healing to the other!

Pick up one. Stick with one and then give your all to it - then see how it transforms you and your life!

" He didn’t think he was entitled to the Knowledge that his Guru had. " - Guru's knowledge is for one and all! And yet, no one receives it by DEMANDING IT! Unfortunately, now due to 'shopkeeping of classes' everyone assumes, he can get 'all knowledge' in a limited time. Know-how can be learned for some money. But Knowledge should be EARNED! Develop eligibility for that! Don't assume you deserve it! 

When one is angry when he is not given some knowledge that is the sign that he does not deserve it and yet assumes he has right!

" He didn’t assume he had the right to take all as and when and how he pleased. " - People who THINK AND ASSUME they can come and learn at their convenience are walking the wrong path. 

Very important quality that is needed for growth in spiritual line is "wait to be called by the Guru". 

One who leaves everything and rushes to attend that call already has the most important ingredient for growth - the right attitude and that by itself becomes his "Rama raksha". It becomes his key to abundance - both in receiving grace and in speeding his growth!