The path!

The end can never justify the means!

The way you travel decides how you arrive at the destination!

So, Beware!

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Metamorphosis!

Metamorphosis!

If caterpillar had looked at itself and hated itself, it would have lost the chance to become a butterfly.

As a caterpillar it is despised by all but it takes time to go within its ‘cocoon’ to come out over time as a ‘beautiful butterfly’ that one and all love.

Caterpillar is looked at with disgust but when it becomes butterfly it is the same ‘yesterday caterpillar’ that brings smile on everybody’s face.

When people look at caterpillar no one sees ‘butterfly’ its possibility of tomorrow.

And when they see butterfly they don’t remember or see the ‘yesterday caterpillar’.

You are treated for what you are. Don’t let that stop you from moving on to your possibility.

Don’t let their ‘disgust’ make you believe you are just a ‘caterpillar’ and never let their admiration forget who you were before.

Accept what you are, but don’t let that limit your potential.

Caterpillar doesn’t become a butterfly overnight. So wait. Let nature work through you to chisel out a miraculous you.

And when the butterfly comes out of its cocoon, even, that is a struggle, but that’s exactly what makes its wings strong. Every event is here to make you a better person, not a bitter one! Remember that!....

There is a reason and season for everything in this Universe. We are not equipped to understand all of them now. But you will as you open up to your higher self bye and by......



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The path!

The path!

Path chosen makes all the difference in your journey!

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On choices..

You can’t play ‘victim’ of the choices that you yourself made!

And no choice based on greed, anger or selfishness can ever be right!

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Be patient!  As simple as it is, it is most difficult but only thing ‘doable’ in times of crisis. Just wait! Do all the other ‘things’ and then just wait for things to sort themselves out! Trust the process! Everyone is helpless before ‘Time’. Everything has a season and all we could do is ‘do our bit and wait’ – that’s all! So, do all that needs to be done and then relax – leave the rest to Him/Time/Reiki/Universe. Don’t hurry! Nothing good would come out of it – ever. So be patient! Develop patience!

And as you wait, don’t miss out on life. Savour little joys and moments of joy. Enjoy the chirping of birds, watch sunrise, relish your coffee, be grateful for the needs and wants fulfilled and carry a song in your heart and that’ll put a smile on your lips. Hold it there for some time. Stop pretending and start living. Work on being instead of achieving. And behold! You are where you desired to be and more.........

May this journey be as joyful as it promises to be to each one of you.........

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Next step is to stop blaming yourself for making wrong choices in your past. You can’t change the past. It’s over. Just concentrate on what needs to be done. “If only I had done or hadn’t done” will change nothing – for anyone. So stop going that lane. If at all you need to, seek what you could’ve done differently if given a choice. This can be a learning process that would help you to choose differently next time. Also, see what you can learn from ‘it’. There always is a ‘lesson’ we can pick up from every mistake that we make.

Don’t miss out on that. But once you are done with this, move on. Stop blaming yourself and instead channel your energies in shaping your present and future.

Stop day dreaming and wish making! This is one of the commonest mistakes of all – assuming everything can be fixed in a jiffy. No, dear, Rome was not built in a day. Instead of crying and wishing for a miracle to happen, work for it to happen. And that is by following all of these tips and techniques religiously. Then not only would you have healed your present issue, you would’ve created a future more beautiful then you’ve imagined and gained ‘attitudes’ that would be priceless and work effortlessly for you for the rest of your lives transforming you and your all lives to come!

Stop comparing with others and wallowing in self pity! This can only take you much deeper into your problem. It can’t get you out ever! Even if the entire world were to pity you, your life wouldn’t better for a second. Then why go down that lane if it can’t take you towards happiness which you are seeking.

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Second, however bad the person is, stop holding him responsible for your suffering. As long as the key to your happiness is in others’ hand, you can never get there. Take it and take charge of your emotions, thoughts and life. Tell yourself 1000 times a day that you created this moment. Yes, it was a bad choice maybe, but it is your creation. The day and moment you own up your mess you get power to clean it too! And not till then...and since it’s your own doing, decide to undo ‘the wrongs’ of your act. Look forward to ‘creating’ all that you desire now! But for that accept that ONLY YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR WHERE YOU ARE!

Third, never give up on healing. Don’t do it out of fear. Healing is a wand that you are using to create ‘your life and weave your dreams'. Do it happily, joyfully – not dutifully. You are not answerable to anyone – not even to me to heal yourself. It’s my choice to remind you to heal, you can choose to ignore it or take it. Choice is yours. So don’t feel obliged to do healing. Do because you know you are given a special technique to chart out your journey or rewrite your journey. You owe it to yourself. And if you may so chose, not chose to work on yourself or use any healing technique too! You don’t incur my wrath or any wrong or negative karma for that! So relax and do it at your pace. But as you do it remember, you reap benefits based on your work – always. So, in case things are not as per your taste and liking, accept them as your choice and move on. Just don’t suffer them. If you can atleast take this much, you would benefit yourself in a huge way!

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