Anger the emotion

 

Anger the emotion

Milestone - 300000 hits so far!

 

Milestone - 300000 hits so far!

I was 'aware' of the numbers below 300000 and felt it would take months before it hits this number and yet....

I didn't even notice that it has touched this number - kudos to us!!!!! Yes, we have touched 300000 page views before today - already!!!!

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2017/11/one-more-mile-stone-crossed.html

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2017/01/one-more-milestone-in-blogging.html 

Moral of the story : Don't have eye on the target. Just keep up the good work in the right direction - the success is there to be yours for sure!

On Sadhan - First of this year 2022

 

On Sadhan - First of this year 2022

Further to https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2022/01/on-sankranthi.html let's start the healing from tomorrow i.e., 19th Jan 22 as suggested by most of you and do it till 7th March 22.

Those who may see this post at a later date (for what so ever be the reason) need not feel bad. Start on the day you see this post and join the rest. If possible, just do the healings (of the missed days) on any of the day/s possible to you.....

happy healing...

P.S: With regards to "EXPLANATION OF TECHNIQUES OF REIKI" - this blog is not the class where reiki is taught or discussed......so no technique will be explained here ........

Homam : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=agnihotra 

On Sankranthi!

 

On Sankranthi!

Let's begin this season with gratitude and smiles......

Let's "Do Earth healing "!!!

Let's begin this season with 'sacrifice'...

Let's "Do homam" !!!

Let's begin this season with blessing and prayers for good year to come.....

Let's "Do navagraha healing"!!!

We are doing this for our 'request of the same for the whole year ahead" - so you suggest / decide on the number of days /weeks you wish to do the healing of the same - this time the number decided by the maximum number of you will be the number taken into account.....

Fight once more!!!

 

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Fight once more!!!

You are answerable to none. You are in competition to none. So, get up every single time and be a winner each time. Keep up the effort.

So, it is with ‘savings’. Even in financial matters it is possible our ‘plan chart’ make face a bump. No problem there! Just keep going with your job and your plans. Just keep working on your finances. Just keep saving as much as you can. Don’t take pressure there. When you look back say 5 years down the line, it all would have added up more better than you had feared and thought. Just don’t forget your sadhan in this area too!

So, you see like this in every area and in every way you can apply this quote and ‘realize that nothing is got right with one fight…we need to fight our nature, attitude and situations to overcome them in the long run…..

So, tighten your seat belt – yeh ladaai lambi chalne waali hai…waise bhi kise jaldi hai.

This fight is going to go for a long time to come….but then what’s the hurry…

We have all the time in the world…

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Fight once more!!!

 

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Fight once more!!!

If you are married and with kid, think twice before jumping into decisions. Any decision taken effects not only you but also the kid for ever....if all you had was to think about yourself then why bring a child into this world? Child is not 'the candy' or a 'leverage' against your partner. Don't use them as so! Child is not raised to get even with in-laws too! Don't work on their accomplishments so that you can show them off to the world....

Only right we have over child is to love and take care of them. Everyone who gives birth doesn't become a good parent automatically. Think about it!

In marriage we think we are fighting with the other to stay married. NO, my dear, we are fighting with our ego (all the parties involved) to stay married. Then who should let go off their ego? The one who is right or one who is wrong would be the usual question.....I would always have only one answer - "The one who loves more should let go and make all efforts to heal and mend the situation"

Similarly, in the battle with ‘self’ everytime we make a commitment to do ‘regular sadhan’ we fail within couple of days. That’s ok! Just don’t stop there! Start over again. You are losing to your own self. See, the ‘winner’ is also you ONLY. So, where is the question of shame, anger, feeling bad, thinking ‘I don’t have it in me’ etc…? Every time you give up or stop the sadhan, the moment you realize, start it again. It doesn’t matter how many times you stop, break or fail. Get up more number of times than that! Make getting up your nature. ‘Not a quitter’ should be your tag line.

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Fight once more!!!

Fight once more!!!

"You have to fight more than once to win it”

Now, where do I use this?

Where ever and whenever I feel I have ‘lost'. It can be in a relationship. If there is a bump in a relationship, then take time to look within. See all that can be corrected instead of all that is wrong in it. It is easy to give up on a relationship especially marriage but to make it work needs effort atleast from one partner.

It is appreciated by people years down the line when you get to hear "wow - married for 25/50 etc years, that's wonderful". These words just don't happen to people. Every marriage went through downs and painful times. But they looked at small achievements of their marriage and kept working on it. They didn't give up. They felt many times like the target they had set for their spouse and marriage is not even close and yet (like me in June with 85 posts.!!!) they kept making their effort and lo! at the evening of their life, they reaped the benefit of the same....they made it with lots of patience and lessons learnt. They learnt what marriage was all about. They learnt to forgive and move on. They learnt to accept the other with flaws. They learnt to give and share. Many more such lessons from at least one partner maketh a good marriage.

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