Milestone moment - 273 posts so far!

Contd....

Milestone moment - 273 posts so far!

Look at all the work that can be done instead of what is not done.

Stop looking at the past and thinking or analysing it for what so ever is the reason. Instead celebrate the abundance that IS now in the life. Thank for them.

Instead of complaining and crying over what you don’t have and could or should have, concentrate on what you have and how to develop it.

Don’t keep looking at the ability/material you lack. Instead look at all the ability/material you have and think ways of putting them to good use.

This way we can celebrate the milestones of ourselves and our life. This way we celebrate life. This way we respect life. This way we live life. Otherwise, we are only chasing one thing after another and missing out of life.

Enough of existence; now LIVE!

Concluded....

***  

# milestones, celebrating the journey, goals and achievements, happiness, living life completely, abundance, moments of life, 

also read if you please : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/09/on-choosing-enemy.html 

Milestone moment - 273 posts so far!

 

Contd....

Milestone moment - 273 posts so far!

How do we see this incident?

Just as completion of some set number of posts. No! That wouldn’t mean much. If you see it in comparison to the 393 – the maximum posts in all these years, then this looks like a failure. But if you see it as a milestone that has crossed all the lower milestones before this, you’ll appreciate the amount of work I did EVEN this year by way of writing and sharing. The goals are good. They help us concentrate and know the direction we should work towards. They help us to encourage and chase the target. But that doesn’t mean we beat ourselves till we reach the ‘said target’. No before reaching the final target, we’ll cross smaller targets and let’s celebrate them too.

This is not about this post and this blog at all! This is just a metaphor. We are using this occasion in this blog to see and understand our said perspective. And that when understood and applied henceforth will certainly bring about the change that we are so looking forward to.

So, how do we use this and where do we apply it?

Simple! Instead of seeing how many wishes are to be fulfilled and keep cribbing about it, take time to count the blessings in our life.

Next, instead of finding fault in the ‘said person’ see the good qualities he/she has. That quality may not be reflected towards you but yet, look at it and appreciate it. Finding fault and always talking ill of the other to one and all is a negative quality. And no good can come out of the negativity. Look within. Own up your flaws instead of always pointing fingers at the other.

Look at all the work that can be done instead of what is not done.

Contd....

# milestones, celebrating the journey, goals and achievements, happiness, living life completely, abundance, moments of life, 

also read if you please : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2021/10/one-more-milestone-crossed-2021.html

Milestone moment - 273 posts so far!

 

Milestone moment - 273 posts so far!

Crossing one more milestone by way of completing posts this year…

Yes, we have crossed the milestone of 2018 that of 273 posts…kudos to that….

Should we celebrate this? Why not? If we wait to celebrate only when ‘our goal’ (that of having our wish fulfilled!!) then we will have very less number of times to celebrate. Then, what is the purpose of having lived such long years? So, while working towards our goal, while waiting for future to express itself, while waiting for our dreams to become a reality, let’s celebrate the little milestones along the journey. Right? That way, we’ll have more number of reasons and moments to celebrate and cherish. What say?

So, go out there and prepare a sweet dish that you can and share it with the people you live with. The more the number of people you share greater is the joy you’ll experience. Your restricting the number of people that you’ll share it with for what so ever the reason is the deciding factor of your ‘joy meter’. Know that and act accordingly….

How do we see this incident?

Contd....

# milestones, celebrating the journey, goals and achievements, happiness, living life completely, abundance, moments of life, 

also read if you please : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2021/08/milestone-of-175-posts.html

Participation time :

I try out various 'colours' ( there is a reason for each colour selected of course....), links given, questions posed, suggesting healing techniques and many more such things....

they keep changing and lots of mix-n-match is also done in this area....

feel free to suggest changes that you are comfortable to see like some colour that is not good for your eyes or so....

i'll look into the suggestions and make corrections where i can and as soon as i can....

you are the one at the receiving end - if you don't participate in atleast in these basic things, then you have live with what is given to you - this applies to every section of your life....

Reflections! On choosing the right path!

 

Reflections! On choosing the right path!

There was a time - nay, actually many times I had felt so and asked this question "So tell me, where shall I go? To the left, where nothing's right? Or to the right, where there's nothing left?" 

Now, if you were to advice me or answer me on this, what would your advice/answer be to me? Where would you suggest I go and why? 

( I could have translated this thing but the flavour would be lost in doing so...so please bear with me on this....I could still do it if you still please though....)

On moving forward!

 

Contd.....

On moving forward!

The choice as ever my dear is yours to make!

Your choice reflects you’re either your stupidity or your sensibility.

Your choice reflects if you are creating hell or heaven for you and for your dear ones!

Your choice forces Universe to send similar energies to you!

You are the stumbling block for your abundance. You are the reason for your success and happiness in life.

Others – be it your Guru/ God/ Scriptures can only guide you and tell you right from wrong – but if you insist on eating poison for it pleases you and still complain of ‘dying’ sorry dear no one can help you there!

So I repeat, choose for your own good!

But the question is ‘do you work for your good?’

‘Do you know your good?’

The way you have run your life reflects your answer. The answer can help you to decide right at least this time – hopefully!

Concluded.....

****

# Destiny and fate, creating a beautiful tomorrow, creating life and future, beautiful life, energies, feelings and emotions, you are what you create, you are stumbling block in your life, be the change you want to see in your life, let go off past

read beautiful old post to understand let go : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2016/05/are-we-carrting-unnecessary-luggage.html 

I find these old posts so fresh even today.....did the reader get it then? If not, may be he will get it now?

Did the reader THINK it got it then? And yet, this time it gives out a different perspective and understanding....it is addressing the burning issue at hand..???? think about it.....

Answers were always there for us - it was US who didn't look for it or didn't understand it or didn't know how to apply it or didn't apply in all areas in which it could have been applied....

revisiting these posts opens all these possibilities to the one who is eager to walk this path - to understand his pain, cause of his suffering, root of his suffering and means to overcome them - once and for all........

Healing technique suggested : 

• Re-birth meditation
• Pranayamam

Do atleast for 3-7 days whenever a certain healing technique is suggested......

things don't happen overnight......but, every drop maketh an ocean....so keep doing and being in sadhan........

On moving forward!

 Contd.....

On moving forward!

Choose sensibly and correctly if you LOVE YOURSELF IN REAL SENSE AND HONESTLY.  Choose your talk, feelings and your emotions for they are shaping your tomorrow – for sure!

Then, don’t come complaining ‘maam, I did shield and yet maam…’

You are writer of your destiny. Not your mother-in-law/spouse / parents / siblings / children/ company / country/ some deity who hates you and wants you to suffer!!!

The choice is ours to make. Do we want to live our lives hating and complaining about others in life or are we here to live life? Don’t start on that ‘but maam, she no maam…’ If you want your life to shape up right, stop dragging others energies with you.

Those who log on to their past replicate their future in same colours of their past!

To have a different future from your past, you have to let go off your past!

Contd.....

# Destiny and fate, creating a beautiful tomorrow, creating life and future, beautiful life, energies, feelings and emotions, you are what you create, you are stumbling block in your life, be the change you want to see in your life, let go off past

also read if you please : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=however+late+you+get+up 

On moving forward!

 

On moving forward!

We all want to move forward. Our dreams are of the future. We dream and wish for future – well most of times.  We want things to shape the way we dream of them. Am I wrong here?

Well, assuming and talking for those who dream ahead and wish for things to shape their way – let me give you a ‘heads-up’ on that! IT IS NOT GOING TO BE SO!

Yes! Unfortunately, so! None of your dreams and wish is going to come true – but this is only for those who are still holding on to their past!

Every time you bring up past and keep talking about it, cribbing about it, complaining and generating energies of hatred, irritation, anger and what not for that – know you are sowing seeds of the same for your future.

So your future is not going to be what you want it to be – BUT IT WILL BE THE WAY YOU ARE WORKING TO SHAPE IT. It will be full of the energies that you are generating – that is full of anger, complaints, frustration, irritation and all that!

So you decide on what you want and how you want to create your future at least from today on wards…..

Contd.....

# Destiny and fate, creating a beautiful tomorrow, creating life and future, beautiful life, energies, feelings and emotions, you are what you create, you are stumbling block in your life, be the change you want to see in your life, let go off past

also read : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=change+the+perspective+lady 

I know you have read this link many times before...and yet since the questions remain the same it goes to mean it has not been understood in toto yet...it is yet to be applied, accepted, ingested in our personality and life and see the change as in the story....

read the story to understand how a little change brings about a huge change in life....the same applies to all. Those who are interested only in venting and wanting someone to throw their negativity will not benefit this time too and be with same problems - not because they are meant to be so. But because they CHOOSE  to be so! They are adamant enough to not make the change that can bring abundance and happiness that they say they want into life in reality. So they are where they are - not because of some mother/mother-in-law, child /spouse, sister /sister-in-law, boss /company, ill health or so.....

Those who are going to read and take time to ponder on this pass your understanding, observations, applications to others......share if you care.......

Life gives us opportunities to develop 'great qualities' like sharing in life and become 'great' eventually. But we miss out on every opportunity under various excuses....again choice makes or breaks us...choice determines our actions - they our behaviour and our habit and that in turn our character. our character decides our destiny....