Grace healings for Swathi

 

Grace healings for Swathi

 

Swathi “ https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2026/04/grace-healings-for-swathi.html?showComment=1777637044532"

 

Swathi – If you are ACTUALLY desiring to be in the sadhan  not for my sake or for any other person, just because you KNOW that in sadhan you have found your solutions and you have seen your life and your attitude getting shaped the way it comforts you, then here is the tip: – 

Instead of giving feedback of sadhan at the end of the month, just do it twice each week – on Wednesday and on Saturday. Just for this month, do this. May be, you can pull yourself of the vicious cycle of “doing – not doing”.

Every week you give the feedback – twice, be ready to receive Reiki on the coming Sunday from me.

Many use sentences that helps them “LOOK” good and still get away with their flaws. The sentences used are –“Maam, sorry for letting you down and not doing sadhan regularly”

“Maam, I am ashamed of myself for NOT living up to my word”

“Don’t know what stops me from not being in sadhan – may be Reiki doesn’t want me to do sadhan or may be God is testing me”

“Maam, you DO REIKI to me that I am regular in sadhan. Is it not the duty of the Guru to help her student?”

“My family is not helpful in my sadhan. They are mocking me etc etc”

“Let Reiki fulfil my wishes and grant my THIS desire then I will do sadhan etc”

These and other sentences on these lines tell only one thing – that the person wants to project an “image” of a victim and get the “hard and boring” work of doing sadhan from me.

If you not being in sadhan has its reason in such a way, forget it. Move on and live your way. 

Remember, you don’t owe “sadhan” to anyone.

Stop using “sadhan” too to create an image.

Own it up.

You don’t want to do.

Fair enough!

Fine – fine by ME!

Unless you are not sure of it and don’t find the need for it – don’t!

Use this too for your growth – in a simple way – just DON’T give explanations. Don’t come back with your complaints.

Don’t suffer with the feelings of inadequacy.

Just live your life happily!

माना मस्जिद नहीं गया 

पर शिकायत भी तो नहीं की। 

maana masjid nahin gaya

par shikayat bhi tho nahin ki...

agreed, I didn't go to Masjid

but then I didn't even complain...

Meaning - Galib says "I agree that I don't follow rituals of going to Masjid. I don't go looking for Allah through these rituals too. But then, why should you complain, when I am not complaining (about my life) too!"

In other words, we pray that our desires be fulfilled. But, if a person lives his life without complaining about anything that happens to him and in his life, then no one can find fault with the fact that he is not ritualistic!

So apt! So beautiful!

And for those who want to know why “Grace healings to her” read - https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2026/04/grace-healings-for-swathi.html?showComment=1777637044532 

Grace healings – for walking alone!

 

Grace healings – for walking alone!

Sending Reiki to Swathi for the next 3 days - for completing the next set.

For the right attitude of walking alone – the pre-requisite in this path of spirituality!

Keep going!

This is the path that needs you to walk alone! Don’t – EVER wait for someone to accompany you – either to attend the class/session or to be in sadhan…..

We – each one of us has to face our fears, pain, sufferings, ego and whatnot – ALL ALONE ONLY at the end of the day! Then, why wait for someone else to continue being in sadhan? All the people you joined the class with may discontinue. Your master may also discontinue – yet, you DON’T! Be in sadhan – if life keeps you busy, then maybe reduce your sadhan time – but never stop sadhan.

In fact, when life keeps you busy, you should be doubly committed to your sadhan. Think of ways of incorporating sadhan in your busy schedule. Do not see it as a task to be performed. See “Reiki” as a lover you long to see throughout the day! Lover here doesn’t mean just any person – it can also be the love of your life like “watching a movie, singing, dancing, doing something that you can’t afford to miss and are finding ways and time to do it every single day for you love doing it”!!!

Love all, be there for all – but don’t lag in sadhan for others! Don’t stop for others! Be in sadhan and do reiki for those who are lagging (behind). That way you benefit yourself and the other in your life. Rise, so you can lift others. Don’t fall into the pit with others – that is not love. Lifting others is – so do that!

May you all see the right way of doing and living life!

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# walk alone, keep going, spirituality, loneliness, solitude, growth, on lifting others, be there for others, become strong to love others, 

Also read previous post https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2012/11/reflections.html 

 

On being regularly irregular in sadhan!

 

Contd....

On being regularly irregular in sadhan!

The Next point is “Is it wrong to not do sadhan or take a break from sadhan?”

Technically, the answer is NO!

Then, what difference does it make?

After all, you come back to sadhan when things go wrong, right? (and there too people talk as if that is also a great favour done to me!!)

Understand this here – ethically, legally, and socially you are not bound to do sadhan. You are not committing a crime by not doing sadhan. https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/04/grace-healings-swathi-and-bhanu.html

Then, what is the problem?

Understand first, why are we doing sadhan in the first place?

If the answer is just, to keep things going in life, fine, you can move on to other posts!

But, for those who are here with an understanding that YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE for all that is happening in your life, you also have understood that YOU NEED TO CHANGE for the better to change the things and people in your life. Then, whenever you give a break, then things and people are going to go back to their original or painful way of being. When you know by being in healing, it can be avoided, the pain can be avoided, why let it surface in the first place? https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2022/07/reflections-on-cleaning-2.html

Contd....

# being irregular in sadhan, sadhan, drawbacks of indiscipline and perseverance in sadhan, success and failure in spiritual field, 

Read related post https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=monk+and+the+fish

Grace healings for Swathi

 

Grace healings for Swathi

 

Swathi “ https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2026/02/sadhan-for-march-2026.html?showComment=1775007613790" – for giving the feedback religiously in spite of being irregular in her sadhan….

Not giving excuses for not being in sadhan.

For owning it up.

For getting back to sadhan.

For giving the feedback – just feedback – honest, naked truth about it. People usually want to buy favours or GOOD NAME and come back with feedback only when they can PROJECT A GOOD IMAGE. But, SHOWING UP however one is, in all sincerity, honesty and without any beating around the bush – well that by itself is a wonderful quality – so rare to go!

I appreciate this nature especially when she exhibits it – again and again….

You will receive reiki once a week every week of this month – hope that is good enough of incentive to be regular in sadhan!

Universe - not all times only benefits the one who is in sadhan but the one who is honest too!

God bless you!

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Grace healings – December 2025

 

Grace healings – December 2025

 

Rahul, Mona, Kshitija, Swathi, Bhagya Rekha – sent “Grace Healings” for 3 days for being in “sadhan” – https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2025/11/sadhan-for-november-2025.html?showComment=1764564137712 ….

 

Why only the “SELECTED FEW ARE RECEIVING THE GRACE HEALINGS”?

TO FIND ANSWER TO THAT READ https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2023/11/a-small-homework-to-do-with-grace.html .....

 

For all the following and related comments, suggestions(??), questions (really?) like:

a.But sending only for a few is partiality.

b.A Reiki Master/God/Reiki SHOULDN’T AND CAN’T behave so. It is so WRONG ON THEIR PART. I condemn that!

c.What do you lose if you send to all instead of us instead of for a few?

d. You make your own rules and that is not fair. You are answerable to us and owe us your “Grace healings” as and when we desire it, want it, demand it, ask for it or seek it.

There are many more such feelings, emotions, statements in the list, but I am sure you get the point.

 

If you DON’T WANT TO SUFFER from anger, self pity, hatred (towards me) and any related feelings or emotions, read “ https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=grace+healings ……

 

And for the statement “You are smart (read it as cunning as the intent was to say and mean that) and get away giving explanations to my questions and demands without fulfilling my wish maam. *****&&****” ----- I don’t have anything to say for that!

 

DISCLAIMER : This topic is not open for discussion in any form – be it in person, over phone or over mail.

End of story! That’s all!

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Grace healings to Swathi– for being regular in sadhan

 

Grace healings to Swathi– for being regular in sadhan

Sending reiki to Swathi for the next one week for being regular in sadhan. https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2023/11/being-eligible-for-grace-for-going-that.html?showComment=1731007926686 

Not only has she completed 8 sets, she is doing one extra 'for those few misses that are bound to happen in sadhan' - wow what a wonderful attitude.

Give more than you are asked for and receive bountiful in return!

Appreciation is for the “Quality” of DISCIPLINE, COMMITMENT, PERSEVERANCE, BEING PROACTIVE RATHER THAN COMPLAINING ABOUT A PROBLEM,

FOR OVERCOMING –

NATURE OF FINDING EXCUSES FOR NOT DOING,

LAZINESS,

And the list continues…..

From these “Grace Healings” understand how to gain “Grace from the Universe and God”. Find the qualities that need to be developed to overcome fate by receiving grace!

Grace healings – Mona, Swathi, Kshitija

 

Grace healings – Mona, Swathi, Kshitija

 

Starting tomorrow will send Reiki to all three of you for the next 10 days for the sadhan that you did during the April 25.

yes, you did miss on few from the list and yet, you did more of what you needed to do – kudos for that!

For regularity: for being regular in sadhan as seen in few last months

For validating the benefit received: for observing the effects of sadhan. Then for accepting it. Then being gracious enough to give it its due. For being grateful to the process and not behave arrogantly saying “I did and I got it” type of talk….

For being humble enough to pass the gratitude to the process!

For enthusiasm to do more: looking forward to next month’s sadhan and wanting to work on the same.

For working on self: for being complaining about life and others in life to taking charge of your life by making changes within and becoming empowered enough to make an impact of the same in your life – positively.

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Read the posts on "Grace healings" to understand how to become eligible to receive "Grace" in life.

Read to understand - 

qualities that take you towards abundance in your life

qualities that stop abundance from coming in your life

why some receive more than the other

what are the hurdles that we place in our path that causes pain and suffering in our lives?

Grace healings for participation in the Yagna and for giving the feedback on the same!

 

Grace healings for participation in the Yagna and for giving the feedback on the same!

Sridhar,  Swathi have come back with their feedback on the “https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/07/sadhan-for-august-15th-our-gurujis.html?showComment=1725800484904…”

In appreciation for being motivated, sincere, participative in the “Sadhan aforesaid”, they received reiki from me for the month of September!

Be regular in sadhan!

Be aware of sadhan!

Also, be vocal about it in the right places!

Yet, don’t brag in all places!

Being vocal in the right places for the right reasons, you receive this grace-healings!

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Grace healings

 

Grace healings

Swathi and Mona receive Reiki for 2 days for doing the sadhan regularly. https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2025/01/sadhan-february-2025.html?showComment=1740819026183

Every sadhan counts. Every bit of sadhan is important and vital. Be in sadhan. Grow strong. Grow sensible. Develop clarity of thought. Attract all kinds of abundance in your life. Yet, be humble.

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