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Wednesday, February 17, 2016

on feedback








…contd….

And here is a boy who says it all. It could be so only he is either stupid or innocent not to weigh his words and reaction of the other person before saying it all!

Either way, what has he got to lose?

NOTHING! Yes nothing. Some faceless person even if he thinks this boy to be stupid, he is what he is. He doesn’t become stupid just because some one thought so.

On the other hand, what does he gain?


Everything! He can have his query answered if it is attended to and he can get his doubts cleared and he is free mentally to do other important jobs in his life.

If I don’t answer, he is where he is. He didn’t “lose” anything. Agreed he may not have gained something but he didn’t lose anything. He is where he is.

He can receive thanks from atleast few people who wish t acknowledge his contribution thereby receiving blessings coming his way.

And to all, please make it a habit to send reiki to anyone who has benefitted you in any way atleast for 15 mts. Once atleast!

So, this way again he can receive reiki from his fellow-students.
I would certainly call this a ‘win-win call’ situation.

Like-wise, remember you don’t lose anything by asking others’ opinion, feedback, help, know-how etc. Either you get it or you don’t. Atleast you know you tried.

...contd.....

Tuesday, October 6, 2020

On playing a game

 


On playing a game

Most part of my work involves writing and the other big part of my work involves ‘blogging’. I need to sit for hours on computers and I get rebuked often for a job that doesn’t pay a penny. I end up undergoing immense physical discomfort, strain and suffering. So at the end of the day, I give myself a treat – a game of solitaire I play just before shutting down the computer. Someday, the game doesn’t end  well– meaning I lose!


Many times, I just play couple of times more, lose that many times and then call it a day! But there are few days, this addiction get the better of me! I lose ‘awareness’ of playing and get lost in playing and end up even playing for an hour or so! When I look at time, I shut down reluctantly as I hadn’t won that day! Addiction of any kind makes us lose our cool sooner or later!

Today was one such day. I lost. I couldn’t get myself to get up and go! So, I continued with second game. I lost again! I waited…should I leave or continue?

The time said “Go to bed!” but…..

Earlier today, someone told me that they go to bed at 10 PM come what may and so they get good sleep and also are able to get up early! They said many other things but their ‘discipline’ to be in bed at 10 PM stuck with me.



I ‘receive’ messages from and through everyone and everything! 

Contd.....



# discipline, messages, addiction, playing a game, learning from a game,

also read : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=lose%2C+feedback 

Pointers : 

For a change you tell me "The Pointers" in this post.......

Covid Challenge : 

Are you still with covid challenge?

Once you pick up a good and right habit though under wrong circumstances, don't let go of it!

Right way of living once caught has to be lived effortlessly and without a thought of doing it daily.

Right eating, sleeping and working out should be a part of life....not a favour we are doing on Universe to seek benefits from it....

When we have right way of living it just means, we are doing our part of the job right. Period! Nothing more! It is not a coupon to demand some fulfillment of our desire at later day.

When we drive a vehicle we keep it serviced and see that the brakes function right. That doesn't mean we will not meet with an accident. We still could and may! If one says "What is the use of keeping the vehicle as I any how met with an accident and had a fracture? I as well may drive a vehicle which is not properly maintained...

What would YOU call a person who puts forth such an argument? What do you call such a logic?

When we say we don't have time to exercise, do yoga, do pranayamam our excuses sound just the same to those who are hearing it.......listen to what you say before saying it aloud!


Friday, February 14, 2020

Question on a feedback!


Question on a feedback!


Further to ----

yes, when it is others story, 'they learn from their pain..' and when it happens to us "why this is happening to me? why God is punishing me? why reiki not coming to my aid?" ......

no doubt with this understanding our suffering never ends and so do our complaints.......surprising is we also thank 'for our level of understanding that we received from reiki and master!?' ....
should I be surprised/confused/angry/or what?

doen't lose out on one more opportunity to look within and heal self 

Wednesday, May 18, 2022

Buddha Poornima 2022


Buddha Poornima 2022


Further to link  https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2022/04/buddha-poornima-2022.html?showComment=1652721203499 - I appreciate one and all who participated in the same...

I seek blessings from the Gurus for all those who completed 108 malas as decided....Keep up the good work...

and those who did more than 108 malas - kudos to you all....taking up a job and completing it is a wonderful quality....

but taking up responsibility beyond the suggested job is an excellent quality....Universe appreciates that in all who have it....go that extra mile in every area of your operation....success and peace will follow you....it is the best panacea for all your ills....develop this one quality and it will protect you from other ills...don't lose that quality....keep working on it and applying it in all fields of your life...

I completed "Japa yagna" yesterday - the whole day long - and the same sent to all those who have given feedback by yesterday of the number of malas completed. 

Wednesday, March 1, 2017

on feedback etc....





Contd.....


Trust me, I’ve realized many times – even when in extreme pain (of any sort!) that just ‘existence is worth a celebration’. Yes pain hurts but to experience pain I should exist. If I am experiencing pain that means I am still alive and kicking. People with leprosy and acute diabetes don’t experience pain in their extremities and lose them over the period of time as they couldn’t realize it was infected and had to be healed in time. We address a disease only when we feel it. If we don’t feel it, how can I know of it’s existence? So, you see pain is good. It helps us to look into the area of trouble.


When someone askes ‘how are you?’ I say ‘maze mein....


“zindagi mein gam hai,

Gam mein dard hai,

Dard mein mazaa hai,

Aure maze mein hum hai....”

ज़िन्दगी में ग़म है 
ग़म में दर्द है 
दर्द में मज़ा है 
और मज़े में हम है। ... 

there is sorrow in life,
in sorrow there is some pain
but in pain there is pleasure
and in that pleasure am I...



So when things are not going your way, you are in different time zone from others and they will happen as per your time zone. So wait! But, with a smile on your lips and hope in your eyes! Learn the art of waiting! Learn to wait! Learn to love waiting! Learn to live!


And you have reiki to support you...


Do re-birth meditation with needed attitude....


Heal, heal and heal. Use all waiting period to heal so that you also enjoy what you desired when it is yours.


Successful ones are those that get what they want.


Contended and happy ones are those that want what they have!


So, work towards being happy person. Heal so much that you celebrate life when your wish comes true! Otherwise with many it is “Ask and it shall be given and then suffer with your asking...”


I may have left few loose ends and if you happen to pick them up do ask questions and I’ll try to write on them.....

concluded...... 

read related posts on pain for further clarification : http://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=pain