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Thursday, April 2, 2026

Sadhan for April 2026

 

Sadhan for April 2026

 


1.     Colour for this month is “White and yellow”. Wear these two colours say 3-4 days per week. You would do well if you can make it 6 days a week. Surround yourself with articles, flowers or just about anything in these colours.




2.     “Hum” – any song, just a line also would do, you can just sing one line of one song and then move to the next song too….. just keep “humming” for 15 minutes daily. Those who get the hang of it, do more. You can hum while doing your daily chores too…..like doing dishes, walking, working on computer….



3.     Chant “OM” 11 times – twice a day – that would be short version.

Chant “OM” for 5 minutes – twice a day – that would be good version.






4.     Do “Re-birth meditation with IRRITATION/ DISGUST” 3-4 times a week.







5.     Do vastu healing 4-5 times a week.

6.     Listen to songs – any genre – 15 minutes a day – even while doing your chores of the day…..

 


Come back with your experiences……..



# sadhan, feeling alive, being grateful, being regular in sadhan, discipline, working on self, self healing, self love, healing the trauma, 

 


Thursday, January 8, 2026

Grace healings – Mona and Swathi – For being honest about their failures!

 


Grace healings – Mona and Swathi – For being honest about their failures!




Mona and Swathi get 5 days of healings!!!!



Why, you ask?

They just didn’t project a good side of themselves-https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2025/12/here-comes-year-end-of-2025.html?showComment=1767486758275



They shared that they failed in their discipline.

They shared that they did not keep up with their schedules.



They shared that they weren’t in sadhan – enough.

They made a resolution to overcome that this year.

They saw their area of personality that they needed to address.



They did not shy away from accepting it.

Knowing about our weakness is the first step in healing.



And healing CAN START only when we ACCEPT THAT WE ARE LACKING IN THAT AREA!

Those who think “I am good enough to receive all that I need or want” can never get healed. They can’t benefit from any amount of healing from others too!



It needs lots of courage to accept that “I wasn’t good enough. I did not live up to my word. I failed in my promise”.

It is huge!

And for that courage that they exhibited, I appreciate them and show them my appreciation through this way.



May their tribe increase in number.

Next point – Not only did they accept their flaws, they did not give reasons to justify them. They owned it. They didn’t push it on to others.

That is huge again!



Everytime, we fail to be in sadhan or do some good, we have enough of reasons to justify our acts. We try SO HARD  to prove that we are GOOD PEOPLE INSPITE OF NOT HAVING LIVED UP TO THE MARK!

Here, they both did not do that!



My love goes out to them – may they find their strength and go an extra mile in this year of abundance!

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# honesty, you receive as you are worth, grace healings, on mercy, giving and receiving, on beingness, character, how character reflects in our abundance and receiving, 


 


Sunday, June 8, 2025

Our duty towards our Nation and Earth!

 


Our duty towards our Nation and Earth!

 


“So long as the millions live in hunger and ignorance, I hold every man a traitor who, having been educated at their expense, pays not the least heed to them! I call those men who strut about in their finery, having got all their money by grinding the poor, wretches, so long as they do not do anything for those two hundred million who are now no better than hungry savages!” – Swami Vivekananda.



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à°¦ేà°¶à°®ంà°Ÿే మనుà°·్à°¯ుà°²ోà°¯్ .... Sri Sri

“desamante matti kadoi desamante manushuloi” – Country doesn’t mean land or mud, it means people!

So, one who does for his fellow beings does it for the Country!

We all complain that our Country is going to dogs. We are angry, fearful and sad that the Mother Earth is going down the drain!


We COMPLAIN! We point fingers at others. We discuss and show our anger on politicians, businessmen and who not!

And yet, when it comes to doing “corrective measures” we have reasons to “not be able to do it”. And yet we believe and assume that we are “good people” who deserve good things in life!!??

Everyone can serve!

Everyone can contribute to making a difference!

Even without going out, each one, especially “sadhaks/Reiki channels” can contribute to the well-being of the Country and the World just by doing “Earth healing” – DAILY!

Any fool can come up with excuses to not be able to do “good things” and contribute something good for the others! But, it is within the power of each person to be able to contribute to the well-being of the World!

“Your choices decide whether You feel helpless or empowered!”

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# being human, being a responsible citizen, being good, making a difference, being grateful, loving and showing love, gratitude, 

previous read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2014/07/kaliyuga.html


Sunday, March 30, 2025

Ugadi wishes to all of you!

 


Ugadi wishes to all of you!




Here are some of my heart felt wishes for you on this wonderful day of Ugadi – Visvavasu year!

 



May you never go to bed hungry,

However the bed, may you slip into deep sleep easily,

May your shadow always follow you,

May you have time to watch the ants march by.

 

May you never outgrow the joy of jumping in the puddle,

May you always chase butterflies, dragonflies and rainbows,

May you smile when you trip and fall,

May you laugh at yourself.


                                           

May you sing in your bath,

May you walk in the Sun enough to cherish the shade,

May you find the shade before heat beats you down,

May the cool breeze kiss your face as you walk on your path.

 


May you love your path,

May you find your way,

May you love your company,

May you choose right!

 



May you smile with your eyes,

May your heart be strong to speak the truth,

May you spread joy wherever you go,

May you change for the better with each day.

 


May you make better every change,

May you aim for the sky,

May you be grounded,

May you hold your dreams in your palms.

 


May you chase your dreams with vigour,

May you live life to the fullest,

May you treat all with kindness,

May you BE YOU!


also read to receive more wishes https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/12/new-year-wishes-for-2020.html


Monday, March 17, 2025

Learning from the Old – As you like it!

 


Learning from the Old – As you like it!

 




When put together both “Peace of mind – A boy and the girl and As you like it” the understanding that you exhibited is “…” shared by Mona, Kshitija, Swathi.

I’ll just sum up the understandings:

·        We view the other based on WHO we are! Not on who the other person is!

Once we understand and accept this point, we’ll realize that the judgements that we make of others reflect who we! So, let’s be cautious there.


Next, to accept love, receive love, validate love and to be grateful for the same, we must have given love in the first place. Only then, can we truly understand and appreciate when it is received. Otherwise, entire life though the others keep showering us with love and respect, all we can see and feel is “insult, emptiness, self-pity, loneliness, depression and related feelings and emotions”.

The same applies to other feelings like respect, help, genuinity and so on.



·        If we can’t trust others, it shows we have been cheating others regularly. The more we cheat others, the less we trust others. And then we ask “But, how can I trust Guru/Reiki if they are not fulfilling my THIS wish?”. We can NEVER TRUST anyone in life. We use that word to manipulate the other to dance to our tunes. But, in actuality we can never trust others.



Only the day we become honest in our dealings with others can we trust anyone in life.

Only the day we give others their worth can we trust that we don’t have to cheat or manipulate to receive our due.

Sit on this.



·        Our fear is directly proportionate to our character.

The one who manipulates is full of fear.



The one who lies is full of fear.

The one who cheats, is full of fear.

The one who is pretentious is full of fear.



And we thought, fear was inevitable!! Ha, ha!

The one who is genuine doesn’t fear.

The one who talks truth doesn’t fear.



The one who gives others what is due doesn’t fear.

The one who is true, doesn’t fear.

Now, it’s up to one and all to decide if we need to live with fear or not!



The Degree of fear in the person reflects various attitudes that need to be healed in him.



·        People you meet, interact and get involved with in your life are so because of “who you are!”



Change the way you are and the same person’s behavior changes for better.

Remember, “YOUR OUTER WORLD IS THE REFLECTION OF YOUR INNER WORLD” OR IN OTHER WORDS “YOUR OUTER WORLD IS THE REFLECTION OF WHO YOU ARE”.

The Only way to change your World is to change yourself!!



These are just a few of the points. 

Read the posts suggested and meditate on them.

Look at reasons for not understanding more. Heal them. Then, take up the links and read them again and receive better understanding. 

Share........

Concluded....

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# boy and the girl, emotions, peace of mind, you are what you read, situations don’t make or break us we do, outer world reflection of inner world, change yourself change your world, changing the World, World peace, mass energies, perspective, understanding, clarity of thought, fear, fearlessness, trust, 


Wednesday, February 12, 2025

Me, My Guru – On surrender – Tale of two neighbours

 


Contd...

Me, My Guru – On surrender – Tale of two neighbours




He often thought he was logical and right when he posed questions or argued his points. But those listening to him could clearly see flaws in his attitude, words and logic! The day we are able to do the same with our words, feelings, emotions and logic would be the day we have won ‘Olympic Gold’ in the ‘Spiritual World’. Would I see that day in this life of mine, I wondered!


“Yes, you can. Nobody can question that. It’s just that not all demands are given in to by our Father! Isn’t it the same with our biological fathers too?

( https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2009/03/real-growth-is-in-letting-go.html )

“To ask is our right and to fulfill it is His Choice”.

To love a girl is your right. But it is the girl’s choice to accept it or not.


To apply to a Company is your right, they accepting it or not is their right! Isn’t it?

You expecting your children to take care of you in old age is your right. They doing so or not is their choice” she continued.

“Ok, ok, I get it. then why should I surrender when He may not fulfill it?” asked Vaishnav visibly irritated.

“No, you didn’t GET IT. if you had you wouldn’t have asked this question. We DEMAND that our wish be fulfilled because we become restless, disturbed, adamant and demanding because of our desires. We DON’T LIKE being in that space of disturbed state. So, we ASSUME we’ll become calm and peaceful if and when our desires are fulfilled. But it doesn’t happen so. We may become calm for very little time but the next desire comes to disturb us. This way we keep going from one desire to the other.

Contd...

# surrender, faith, trust, belief, doubt, suffering, waiting, attitude, calm mind, mindfulness, being still, let miracle work through you, being his vessel,

also read suggested further on this topic https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/09/on-belief-and-trust.html


Point to consider:

I take pains to search for the link that adds meaning and gives answers to your questions as you read through the present post. When I can take pains to do so, why can't you take the trouble to read the link to get your answers, is the question that bothers me since years.......

Or 

better still, I think I can stop doing this unnecessary work of giving links of the previous posts for your read.......


Saturday, February 1, 2025

Grace healings - for sharing feedback!

 


Grace healings - for sharing feedback!




Swathi, kshitija, Mona receive Reiki for 3 days for sharing their feedback on their year long experiences – https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/12/year-end-2024.html?showComment=1735996768566


By this simple act they have shown that they are ready to give (even it be just feedback) to one who is slogging all through the year to write for you. It shows they are just not TAKERS in a relationship. And that is the most important attitude to develop in inter-personal relationships. We get to develop and express these attitudes in such scenarios. We can believe (Wrongly) and assume we give in a relationship but in simple day to day activities our real nature expresses itself.


This is a long journey. Just having this is not enough. On daily basis how they work on it and develop it decides how much love they receive in life.

YOU RECEIVE WHAT YOU GIVE!

Have any excuse, but a simple feedback clearly states ‘the way we act in our relationships’.



We receive what we receive because of who we are!

So beware! Your every act counts!

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# grace healings, 


also read https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/10/on-sharing-your-experiences.html