Contd….
Same
old, same old – Old wine in New bottle!
Life
treats all alike. It plays by the same rules with every one!
The
one who while ‘stopping goes within, connects with himself, corrects his
priorities, way of operation, behaviour, values, comes out of ‘rest period’ as
a more balanced, happier, content and with clearer vision of himself and how to
go about his job, relationship and his life in general.
Why
all this talk now and again?
With
the advent of New Year most of you must be expecting things to change for
better. We naturally assume ‘everything to go to that happy place’ with the
press of ‘New Year button’. It is not so! If only it was so, my job would be
redundant and I would be spared of all this trouble too!
Then
am I to be pessimistic?
I
didn’t say that either!
This
year will express itself it way! I can’t decide that.
But,
the thing that I can decide and act is that this New Year I am going to look at
things differently.
I’ll
relate differently.
I’ll
express differently.
And maybe , hopefully I’ll
write differently.
I’ll
think differently.
And
for this ‘difference’ to be in the right direction I’ll still hold on to old
story of regular sadhan, including more techniques in routine and working on
being more aware.
Though,
all is said in multiple ways and multiple times, most of the ‘sadhaks’ are way
too far away from ‘this’ finish line.
So,
our portion though would be more or less same, the way it’ll be dealt with will
hopefully be different.
After
every period of silence, if any of you have noticed, the writing has changed,
the presentation has changed and I wish to believe it was for better. This way I
don’t see a reason for it to be different than before.
Every break is beautiful. Every break is useful. Every break can be productive. Every break is needed. But all this is understood, accepted with right clarity of thought.
Every break is painful. Every break causes suffering. Every break is an excuse to complain. It becomes an excuse to seek favours. It becomes an excuse to attract attention to self and needs of self. It becomes an excuse to cling to others and justify being irresponsible, coward, undisciplined and above all to seek pity from others. All this and more when our logic is used to create pain and suffering in our lives. All this and more when our intelligence and energy is used to 'be' how we are and where we are as a person!
So - look at self to know how a break has impacted you. Learn from it and do the needful.
Concluded…..
(Indian
calendar which is lunisolar based begins
with ‘Ugadi’ that falls in April. So, technically our New Year begins in April
with Ugadi.
But
with the influx of Western fads and fancies we have come to assume and greet
each other ‘New Year Wishes’ on Jan 1st.)
# hiatus, breaks in life, cycles of change, failure and success, expectations and conditions
also read : links on being still, doing nothing, going with the flow and such related topics
Pit falls :
Why are we not able to learn the 'right lesson' from the right experience?
1.Basically because we use our logic to ask wrong questions.
2. Instead of asking questions like "how to make best use of my time/wait/situation?" we ask "When will this end?/ Why me?/ Why doesn't XYZ help me?/ " etc etc...
3. Instead of seeking solutions or ways to deal with the situation we end up praying/asking for ending the present situation.
Hard facts :
Winners and losers both have and face more or less same situations, challenges and failures. But one concentrates on making the best use of it. And the other used all his energy in anger, crying, complaining, finding fault with others, being jealous of others etc etc.....YOU decided whether you will come out of every situation a better or a bitter person.
Any questions in this topic?
Area to be aware of and correct it when and if you find it:
People accuse Reiki/ system of healing /Guru/people in life (and even dead)/ Universe/God in the name of "SEEKING ANSWERS".
In the above case heal the anger, expectations, demanding nature, conditioning, desire ......
Why it is hard to listen to this suggestion?
Because we end up justifying our demands, feelings, emotions, actions and expectations instead of healing them!
Anyone who finds this useful and who applies this post and its contents, share your experiences, insights and usefulness for others and with others...........
