on utilising break!

You can be reading older posts and then get  back with your feedback,queries, experiences, application areas and results etc...........

Trust me, you'll find so much that you seem to have missed or not noticed then......the 'work' is worth the try......

On break!

Well, even I thought so!  

So, just taking a pause for a while.....from life, not giving up yet ......

i found out very early in life that almost everything works if you unplug it for sometime...thought would do the same with self and my work.......

you can say i am temporarily shut down for spiritual maintenance....

catch you up when it's time..........

just suggested reads

Few questions like why we celebrate Dassera and the meaning and purpose behind the  ritual of decorating dolls during Dassera is explained..... https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=dassera

on death!

On death - Me, My Guru

Once we were just talking, asking some random questions and seeking not so serious doubts at our Guru's place. We all were in very relaxed mood! Now we were at a very 'peaceful' space! Then out of blue, I darted a question at her "Why do all the best people die?"

Without even flinching a eyelid she asked "When you are in a garden which flowers do you pick?"

"The most beautiful ones" I answered matter-of-factly.

"Exactly!" she replied and turned towards someone who asked her some doubt...

Her answer instead of putting me and my doubt at rest opened the Pandora's box of various questions...

I had actually asked her without even thinking about the question. I had just popped up that question....but her answer wow! 

I was lost to the rest of the session.....i didn't register what happened later.....

on losing!

             

Gist of teachings!

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Gist of teachings - Me, My Guru 

Apply it and get back with your experience.

And yes, you can apply it to your boredom, pain and suffering too!

How many times you’ve heard cancer survivors state “I am glad cancer came into my life. Today I live every moment, every day as it comes. Cancer has taught me to never take life or for that matter anything for granted. It has taught me to life correctly, completely and cherish it more than ever!”

Even Malala thanks her perpetrators for attacking her because that made her ‘face of girl child and girl education’. So ask ‘how can I add more value to this pain?’ and let that lesson or opportunity bring more abundance into yourself and your life.

Every pain carries with it its equivalent or greater benefit wrapped in it. Are you smart enough to see the benefit/opportunity in that pain/situation? Work on your abilities to see right in such situations and lo where you saw problem, you’ll find solution and an opportunity of life time waiting for you!

Take time and revisit your past painful and tough times/people and see how they helped you to be a richer person. Write it down and let this knowledge sink in. If it has happened then, why can’t it happen again? Now work on your present situation and come out a winner. Let this become your habit till you come out a winner always!

And don’t forget to enjoy this journey as you walk down this path.....”

I folded the paper and looked up to sky. I kept staring at the sky and

I don’t know for how long...something stirred in me and knew not what – but stir it did! How easy it was for some people to learn from any given situation or fact! And here I was, year after year complaining about the same things and people of my life over and over again....where did I go wrong? Why couldn’t I be just like one of these people? Would I ever be one of these? These questions stayed with me long after I had left her (my Guru’s) place......didn’t know who wrote that but it did reach the person for whom it was written......Universe did have its own way of reaching out to the person......i smiled at this thought and thanked Universe and Reiki silently and left her place ..........for now.....

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Gist of teachings!

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Gist of teachings - Me, My Guru

Your question was “What is one saying which can help me tide through thick and thin and be an answer to all my woes? And lo! Here stand your answer!

Just replace ‘this’ in the question “How can I add more value to this?” with your issue and you have your answer.

Let me give just couple of examples.

Situation A:  He/She doesn’t understand/like/respect me.

Your answer – Your Ram baan/mantra “How do I add more value in this relationship?”

Yes, shift the focus (of action and correction) from the other to yourself first by this Rambaan.

Next, love/understand/respect him/her more would be the answer.

Remember, if your love doesn’t heal relationship then increase the dosage – that is only the right prescription”.

How? (this will be your next question)

Answer – by doing emotional healing. Good! Start doing it and enjoy the results.

Situation B: I didn’t get promotion/increment/financial abundance that I seek/deserve.

Answer: your ‘Ram baan’ – “How do I add more value to this job/situation?

Answer : do the healing required and physically add value to your job/situation.

Situation C: I am/want to be a good person/good sadhak etc ...

Ans : Your ‘Ram baan’ – work on your weaknesses through various techniques and with awareness and other qualities where concerned.

Like-wise you can apply anwhere and get a solution.

But there will be few ‘dangerous temptations/devils’ that’ll work for your failure. Just be aware of them and simply ‘drop’ them the moment you realize you’ve been taken for a ride by them.

A.Don’t justify your stand/intention or find fault with the other/situation. This road leads you to ONLY pain and suffering.

B.Don’t ask “Why should I be the one to heal even when the other is wrong?”

I can give dozens of answers but only one would do “Because you are fed up of this pain and situation and only you of the two know to come out of it and bring both out of it finally. So!

Nothing moulds you better than this small mantra. When I cook, I ask this question, I don’t cook for the person who is going to eat. There we may slip into anger – the one we harbour on the eater. Instead if you ask this question, it betters you as a cook and as a soul we are here to ‘create’ and creating a simple good dish gives you that joy that connects you to your soul consciousness.

Apply it to every moment, to every act – be it cleaning, working, walking, reading, listening and see your abilities sharpening and becoming better every day and even before you know you become who you always wanted to be – happy and contended!

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Gist of teachings!

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Gist of teachings - Me, My Guru

When I heard and saw that documentary then it hit me that one ‘motto these great people lived in their lives’ was “How do I add more value to this?” And that was the answer I had picked as a kid on the terrace that day and that’s why I didn’t cry again – because the shift was properly and correctly made from ‘I need to be loved/missed/pitied/cared for’ to “How do I add value to this?”

That means instead of ‘feeling for self’ I had shifted my energy and vision towards how to make a difference in any given situation....

And I think this simple motto helped me cross from shackles of ‘pain and suffering’ towards freedom of ‘creating and happiness’. YOU asked if all teachings can be given out as a gist in one sentence – well here it is “How can I add more value to this?”

Your question was “What is one saying which can help me tide through thick and thin and be an answer to all my woes? And lo! 

Here stand your answer!

Just replace ‘this’ in the question “How can I add more value to this?” with your issue and you have your answer.

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Gist of my teachings!

Gist of teachings – Me, My Guru

“The year was 1997. That year was tragic for many people for it took away ‘their darling – Princess Diana’ forever from their lives! The pain and anguish that thousands of people all over the world felt – the common public especially who haven’t even met or seen her were unbelievable.

Seeing those many crying for her, as a kid I wondered ‘how many would feel my loss when I am gone?’ In my mental picture I saw ‘no one’ crying over my death. I was walking on the road alone that day. I was going towards my house and I was crying. Crying because I saw no one ‘missing me’ over my death. I wasn’t afraid of death even as a child. But the pain of being ‘not missed’ pained me more!

That night I remember sitting all alone on the stairs that lead to an empty house and crying, when I finally got down my tears had dried and don’t remember for very many years to come – inspite of very tough life situations!

That night as a kid I didn’t realize I had received my answer. I just felt light, happy and complete after that night. I didn’t know why I didn’t analyse it then too!

But years later when I saw a documentary on Diana and saw how she had worked in Bosnia and had helped clear it of ‘land mines’, how she had touched lives of millions of people there and how her son said “As a boy of 12 I was surprised to notice that my mother was missed by millions who haven’t even seen or met her. The pain these many people felt was not felt by me as her son and that bit of surprised me. But years later, now when I see the amount of work she had done I know what she meant to them and why”.

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On feedback!

Further to your comments https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2862044755103556326&postID=2317824628191988029--- I would like to thank-you for giving links for ‘financial abundance and healing’, even without knowing for whom it was addressed to. As long as there are people ready to help, reach out and show way to unknown fellow-travellers there is hope! Hope that ‘good will prevail’. Hope that love can shine through all veils and held hand of the one who is lost, in despair, alone and seeking solace and words of encouragement and direction! May this nature guide you through your life and relationships!

Bless you!

And trust me this will come back to you in measures and ares unknown to you!

No act of yours goes waste!

As the same time, don’t be conscious of your ‘good act’ while doing it. Just do and forget it.

I also would congragulate you on sharing your experience with others. This really boosts the confidence of your fellow students like nothing else! (This I say at the cost of being repetitive!) My words seem distant at the time of pain and suffering and you may put aside with ‘oh, she always says, so, but she doesn’t understand’. But when it is an experience of fellow student/traveller in this path, well it means something. Every person who has shared his experience in class/blog/reiki meet has influenced/touched someone’s life and kindled someone’s hope and belief in sadhan. People have then gone back to sadhan and have received what they were seeking. Yes, you may not get to hear it from the one who’s benefited but YOU surely did make a positive impact on atleast couple of peoples’ life. And that is really something! So keep up this good act too – going!

Just go to one of the oldest posts and compare it with present day posts....wow! I really feel WE have come a long way – atleast by way of presentation in this blog! And all thanks to suggestions and requests by you – especially by Vaibhav which sowed the seeds of improvement most of the time and remaining I would attribute it to snowball effect of the first cause! Like asking for link when I was just giving you the dates of earlier posts etc....

Here I would like to repeat once more that with regards to technology and gadgets; I am with much less knowhow than you were in Reiki when you first came to meet me. So you can imagine ‘the hard work’ I have to do to get these things done! So henceforth if you want any technical change/add-on etc please also give me a simple ‘do list’ (instead of asking me to read link of how to go about doing or implementing it!).

I would want to better it if it benefits you because at the end of the day as always told by me; this blog was started and will be for your benefit. And if any addition makes it easier and more beneficial for you, I am for it – but a little help from your end would be a welcome gift to yourself only afterall!

When I started I thought I would tell all I knew in just over few months and that’s it! But just see, it’s well past nine years and we are yet to touch so many more topics! All thanks to your participation and interaction!

I always wanted to be a writer living a life of solitude in some hilly region just meeting my publisher from time to time to get my book published and to receive my royalty. I never knew that my ‘wish’ would be used by the Divine this way to get His job executed. Neither life in hills nor any royalty received for my writing but being a vehicle to write all that the Divine wants to tell through me! Yes, I’ve been inspired, touched and even had been awed with my writings most of the time because till I put it out, even I didn’t know I had it in me! So you see as much as I would like to own my writings I can only say I wrote them but the ‘thoughts’ in them were beyond me. And I thoroughly enjoyed being this postmaster for you from the Universe, Reiki and Reiki Gurus!

The physical labour has been mine but the ‘talk’ well....i hope now you understand how ‘I’ end up writing what you wanted/or were thinking... I am no Saint or a ‘person’ talking to God – just a witness witnessing the acts performed through this body, mind and intellect and boy what an experience it is...and each one of you can experience it in your field/life/relationship if you apply/do sadhan regularly and with faith....and that is the sole purpose of this laborious exercise which also fits into your soul purpose! So keep reading, understanding, applying and benefiting........

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