Whenever we say or wish in comparison to others, we are asking for trouble.
For eg:-
I want my husband like SRK. Wish would give me a husband who is a chain-smoker, insomniac, prone to accidents, workaholic, fidgety, dear to women and girls etc. And I crib and complain, why I got such a husband? Remember “ask and it shall be given” and it is always a package-deal. Instead say “I want my husband to be good-looking, romantic, expressive, understanding etc depending on which character of SRK’s role fascinates you.
Remember, NEVER EVER use “like x/y/SRK” etc while wishing for something in life.

The most common way of asking for wishes would be in comparison. Like “I should be richer than my brother-in-law.” Fine. He has Rs 5 lakhs credit card outstanding and I complain saying “why my wish is not fulfilled?” When it actually gets fulfilled. Say my earnings should be Rs 10,000 pm – NOT more than my brother-in-law. If I say “I should be happier than others relatives”. I’ll get divorced.
Wish fulfilled but complaint and pain remains.
So, we get what we ask, so let’s ask correctly from now onwards.

Sometimes, I may ask correctly yet wish may not be fulfilled especially if you doing Reiki. For e.g.: I want to become Prime Minister and I do Reiki regularly still it wouldn’t happen. Why? When a 5 year old with high fever cries for an ice-cream, does the parent buy one? No. Right! Why, is Rs 5 dearer than the child? Cant he afford Rs 5? The same parents buys 2 ice-creams when the child is back to normal when the child is back to normal. When a parent with limited intelligence can show love in denial, Reiki which knows me through all of my soul journey, doesn’t it’s love express it self in denial. When I get what I want it’s good. But, when I don’t get, it’s even better, because in that is Reiki’s Love and wish.
Reiki always believes in short-term pains and long-term gains.

So, the trick is to increase the worthiness to receive the object of year desire/love. How?........

On desires and decisions – Me, My Guru Crow, Parrot and other birds

On desires and decisions – Me, My Guru

Crow, Parrot and other birds

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“Ask and it shall be given” is the word of God. He is not answerable to the consequences of your wish coming true, so spare Him that”. We all laughed. We did it everytime! We prayed, prayed and then cried when our wishes did come true too! Either way, we felt doomed always. Would we ever find satisfaction and happiness in our lives? I very much doubted that with our present state of mind.

“So learn to live with your desires fulfilled. Agreed you didn’t see it coming this way and you are not forced to stay put that way for ever too! Yes, that’s the good news. Heal again and ask for change of events again and do this till you are more comfortable than in pain with your circumstances and people in your life. You can do it ‘N’ number of times – no questions asked. Just don’t be a ‘cry baby’ and envious

of ‘others being happy’. That’s all! If you want to do it or decide to do it, I mean the crying, envying and being angry with Reiki, reiki master or God, you are welcome to do it, just don’t expect anything substantial to come out of it...and then when none of these work and you realize that and are desperate to work on your dreams and desires again, just start doing sadhan the right way and in time you’ll see things shaping up again....

Now I know your next doubt. “How long should I keep changing my ‘prayer’ and why can’t He give what I want the first time itself?” if you’ve played ‘card game’ you would understand my explanation easily. When you start card game you hold certain cards, most of them are useless and more of a liability to your hand, so you start changing one card at a time till you have a hand which is perfectly sequenced and you declare ‘Show’. Do you say ‘why can’t we take all the cards in sequence at the start of the game?’ I’ll not help you with the answer here. You find it yourself. Similarly, you change one ‘variant’ in your life (like salary, person, place of residence or some other materialistic possession etc) till you get more or less all that you seek finally.

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On comparison

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-but, ram’s wife would control his entire earnings. He wouldn’t be able to make a purchase of even rs.100/- on his own. She wouldn’t give him that much. That was the level she was controlling his finances and him and here Venkat was feeling bad that his wife wasn’t like his and suffering why? Because, Ram would for ever praise his wife and her management skills, Venkat thought if he is praising so much he’s really got a good wife which my wife isn’t! how fundamentally stupid!

One day Ram went into depression because of his wife’s nagging. Venkat’s wife lost job. Did he not want his wife to be like Ram’s? so, even his wife became a house-wife. And now, he lives with financial insecurity too! Remember, when you continuously complain about something, that ‘thing’ becomes a reality in your life!

Success and rate of growth depends upon our abilities and karma. But, we nod our heads when we hear that but end up comparing and suffering none-the-less. When you compare with someone, you invite their energies into your life and that their problems become yours! I’ve explained it so many times and yet……… 

Let’s assume you go on comparing your husband with SRK, eventually he’ll become a chain smoker, flirting with every girl and become totally insecure inspite of being successful in his field. And you’ll complain stating these traits – when actually your comparing nature brought about this change in him.

So instead of suffering because of comparison have a target, write an intention in your intention box, do reiki for the same, do intentions reiki, full body reiki and get what you want. This is the sure shot way to get what you want.

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