Whatever happens happens for good!

Whatever happens happens for good!

    

Even rain drop falling at a place has a reason.....

Everything happens for a reason - Read it several times! Yet, when we are in the crossroads of life where ‘nothing’ seems to move this saying sounds irritating. When all we desire is the fulfillment of that one wish and it ‘never’ seems to happen. It is frustrating. When all our prayers seem futile and wait looks never ending, such sayings and Sayers seem not to understand our woes and pain.

Our suffering is all that seems to ‘BE” and it is all consuming eating into our peace of mind, health and sleep. Then – these sayings seem to belong in the gutter.

Our ears block such statements. They don’t want to hear such words. Our whole system reacts violently to ‘calm and soothing’ words.

People who use these words or advice us with such quotes seem to be our worst enemies.

All said and done – this is exactly when we need such quotes and sayings. It is when we need a person who doesn’t just forward such ‘thought for the day’ but who states them with conviction.

Not because that person knows whose quote it is, but because he knows it with experience that it is true. Someone who has seen the ‘Law of Universe and Nature’ work like million times. One who also knows if there is exception to such sayings and if so when and to and on whom it applies.

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related previous posts : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=everything+happens+for+a+reason

Questions answered : 

Why things don't go our way?

Why things happen the way they happened/happen?

Why me?

Everything happens for a reason!

 

Everything happens for a reason!

“God doesn’t play dice with the Universe” – That was Einstein the greatest minds of 20^th century who said it. If the greatest Scientist of our age says so, it must be good!

Jokes apart – even if you are a non-believer in God, still nothing happens without a reason is Law good enough to be believed! If that be true and believed, then our pain, our struggles, our fights, our failures – everything must be having a reason. They can’t be for nothing! Isn’t that a reason enough to be giving a better fight every single morning of our life? When life throws us down, are we getting up with a smile? Are we learning from life or are we just moving from one suffering to the other? Once our prayer is answered, second time it happens and again and again, then is our trust build on that? When once we are denied fulfillment of our desire and later day we realized how good it was that our desire was not fulfilled? This happened say ‘n’ number of times. Are we learning or seeing the Law of Universe in work which states “Only that which is good for you will be given to you at the appropriate time and things that are bad for you are denied their fulfillment with your good in mind”?

If we are learning from our every yesterday then we should be more cheerful, less conditioning of life, more relaxed, more trusting in the good of life….and thereby seeing abundance flow in all walks of our life……..

If we say we are learning but only in paper but not in heart, then our nature has only become bitter over the years. Our trust is condition based. We still say ‘I trust so He must be fulfilling our desire’. We trust people less and less. We don’t see the good in store for us not the abundance that flows all around us.

Think about it!

Meditate and find our which one are you!? 

also read suggested : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=everything+happens+for+a+reason

Whatever happens happens for good!

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Whatever happens happens for good!

Agreed ‘food’ is in your ‘destiny’. But if you sit as home would food come and crawl into your mouth on its own! I have my doubts there! I believe we have to go out and do our bit to earn and then we get ‘food’ that we are promised by our ‘Destiny’.Likewise, some use it to end up complaining, abusing God/Reiki/Guru feeling self-pity saying ‘I don’t have it in my destiny so no use working for it’.

Read post on Markandeya to learn about destiny and freewill – written earlier.

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=markandeya

Whatever be our Destiny – whether we are going to get it or not – either way, the result can be sweet and enjoyable if we heal ‘who we are’ as that would affect the way we project and create our energy field into this Universe. And that in turn affects the events that are to happen in future.

So inspite of pain, anger, frustration, hopelessness, despair, fear, anxiety and related emotions and feeling, sit to heal yourself. Heal the mental state. 

Your situations are not the cause of your state of mind.

Your state of mind is the cause of your situations!

So sit, heal and take charge of one thing which can be controlled by each one of us for sure – our state of mind.

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# freewill, snowflake, destiny and fate, healing, pain and suffering, everything happens for good......

also read earlier posts on death - 

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=story+of+dragonfly (Please read the posts in order of dates and not the way it comes in this link)

Whatever happens happens for a good!

Whatever happens happens for a good!

Very few can see the future. It is near to impossible as it is in fluid state most of the time. And the one who is agitated and in pain can’t certainly be ‘that person’ who can see. Not because he is a ‘sinner’ or lowly by birth. No! Certainly not! The reason is very simple and yet very difficult to accept. Imagine future to be like a river bed. Can you see the river bed if the water is muddy or full of foam? No! Only when it is clear and flowing calmly, clearly can one see the river bed. Similarly, an agitated mind harms our perception. And that in turn likes out our power to ‘see’ beyond or through time.

“So, that’s why I go to that ‘Baba’ asking him about the future!”

Or

“That’s why I go to astrologers wanting to know that evasive future!”

Good! If you use them as road maps guiding you to work on yourself or your sadhan, it’s fine. Because then you are going towards your desire. You are healing the ‘obstacles’ in some way. Healing can be like doing pooja, following some ritual like doing charity etc., doing Reiki etc.

But, if you use these tools of Baba’s and astrologers to sit back and relax and wait for that ‘magic’ to happen on its own as ‘they’ promised – dear you are in trouble.

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related posts : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=snowflake

Need for pain

 

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Need for pain

I don’t predict future. I am a believer of ‘writing and designing our future’. And so am in ‘healing path’. Our future is going to be right whatever the outcome be. Note here clearly. I said ‘future is going to be right’ and not ‘good’. Good is subjective. What you consider as good is only your ‘desire’. And you are happy only when your condition of that desire is fulfilled. But, here I am not saying ‘good’ I am saying ‘right’. Right means ‘may be not up to my taste or as per my desire’ but still what is right for me!

This right is selected by the Universe. It is decided by the reiki. How can it be wrong for me? Whatever He decides, it’s got to be good. This is based on the fact and Truth that His love for me is greater than my love for myself.

Think about it! So many times we have asked things and situations for our pain. We attracted that which was painful for us. We choose things and people who are harmful for us. Agreed in ignorance, but choose we do. How we are wrong for ourselves!

HE is beyond ignorance. He is knowledge himself. How can he operate out of ignorance? And so, His decision for me can only be good and right at the same time! That is Trust I have in Him!

So whatever fears you have because of COVID surrender it to Reiki/Universe/God and just do your bit every single day.

Surrender doesn’t mean you throw caution to the wind. I know a gentleman who does pooja for a min. of 3-4 hours. He has chosen ‘celibacy’ (brahmacharyam) over married life. Why? Because, for him being with God in every thought is the only way of life. He takes care of his aged parents. He is a successful professional. He is from well to do family. And yet he is clear in his purpose of life. He went to ‘kumbh mela’ saying ‘energies of that place would not let virus come there’. He came back with COVID and both his parents in late 80s with co-morbidities are at risk because of him. His SIL who is mother to a one year kid is already infected. SIL’s both parents (who live in next house to theirs) are cancer patients undergoing cancer treatment. Just imagine the scenario.

Our belief should not be a cause of pain, suffering or trouble to others. Remember that always!

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# pain and suffering, desire and its fulfillment, destiny, twists and turns of life, life - a miracle, unfolding of life events, everything happens for a reason, everything happens for good, 

also read suggested : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search? q=everything+works+out+for+good 

Questions addressed : 

• Why do I suffer when my prayers are answered too?
• Why am I not happy inspite of my wish being fulfilled?
• Now I am afraid of asking for wishes as their coming true also gives me pain. Does that mean I don't ask for wishes? Then how do I run my life?
• Who takes decisions when I am not taking decisions for my life?

Points to be understood : 

• When my desire is fulfilled, Good!
• But when my desire is not fulfilled then it is better for me as HIS WILL is present in the decision.
• जब मेरी चाहत पूरी होती है तो अच्छा 
• पर जब मेरी चाहत पूरी नहीं होती है थो बहुत अच्छा क्यूँकि उसमें उसकी रज़ा होती है..... 
• What I desire for myself is not necessarily good! No arguments there!
• What I want need not be for my good. 
• There is His Love operational even in denial!
• His love for me is much much greater than my love for myself.
• I in my ignorance can want and chase things and people harmful for me.
• HE never gives me anything harmful for me. It may be distasteful for me - but harmful - NEVER!
• He knows more about me than I myself!
• If you want to argue on that, first sit in meditation and go within. Know thyself! Then open your mouth to argue.
• One who feels restless, fear, pain just by closing one's eyes and wanting to be silent for few minutes - what does that reflect about that person?

Please note : I am not communicating doesn't mean 'no teacher period and so make more noise and do no homework....!'

Some of you have been given special task to be performed for 3-4 months next. Are you doing it? I am sure i don't need to repeat saying this again.....

Read https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=why+God+doesn%27t+come+to+my+rescue  to understand how God helps people in Sadhan.

Also find answer to your question : Aren't energies of Kumbh mela and pooja supposed to protect a bhaktha? If no, then why be in sadhan?

Ask yourself this question before blaming Reiki/Guru/God "Am I here to question His Greatness and Glory or am I working towards experiencing a miracle happening through Him in life?"

Am I challenging his Glory and Greatness OR 

Am I being a torch to his Glory and Greatness?

Need for pain

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Need for pain

The result – the wish comes true but with the price of a pain that needs to be borne before its fulfillment. Pain is not the ‘sadistic pleasure’ God / Universe derives from us against our desire! No it becomes the way to fulfill our desire. 

Only crying at that level and for so long could have cleared his throat that way that he could without even formal musical training be considered one of the best voices and singers of all times to come!

Greater the fight, bigger is the medal!

Bigger the war, greater the reward!

The greedy, coward, selfish nature in us stops us from paying the price ‘required’ to make our dream come true.

But the mind that is trained to cut through our ego, rest in sadhan, trust in the Divine/Sadhan / reiki will work on its fear to come out as ‘hero’ of every struggle that is laid in our path……

Now the fight can be personal, professional or even social!

COVID is one such fight. No one knows the outcome. No one knows what is waiting for us. No one is able to predict anything here for sure!*

I don’t predict future. I am a believer of ‘writing and designing our future’. And so am in ‘healing path’. Our future is going to be right whatever the outcome be. Note here clearly. I said ‘future is going to be right’ and not ‘good’. Good is subjective. What you consider as good is only your ‘desire’. And you are happy only when your condition of that desire is fulfilled. But, here I am not saying ‘good’ I am saying ‘right’. 

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# pain and suffering, desire and its fulfillment, destiny, twists and turns of life, life - a miracle, unfolding of life events, everything happens for a reason, everything happens for good, 

also read : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=everything+happens+for+good

Questions addressed : 

• Why do tough times happen in life?
• Why is there pain and suffering in life and in this world?
• How to benefit from pain and suffering in life?
• What is the difference between 'good' and 'right' in life?

Points to be understood : 

• Sometimes, pain and suffering come with a lesson to be learnt.
• Sometimes, pain and suffering come to bring order in the chaos that we have made or created in our lives.
• Every order that needs to be brought is painful as a process. But it is inevitable. 
• If we had and are following 'dharma' in every wakeful point of Time there would be no need for the Universe to intervene and put it in order when things go out of hand. At such times there is no pain involved as there is no process that is required to set things right!
• Know the difference between good and right and walk on the right path always to avoid pain in life.

*You also don't ask a senseless question "maam, when will it end? or Why this maam and so on...?"

Instead ask "How do I make best use of this time which when it passes away is never going to come back?"

"How do I use the emotions that are disturbing in me to outgrow them and become more strong person - the one I am born to be...?"

Did this post benefit you and give answers to your directions to address your disturbed emotions?

Are you working on being centered?

Need for pain

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Need for pain

Our belief should not be a cause of pain, suffering or trouble to others. Remember that always!

Trust, but also be alert and cautious.

I trust REIKI but that doesn’t mean I would keep pushing Reiki to prove its existence by lighting a lamp and placing it at crossroads with a condition ‘if Reiki IS, the lamp will light come what may’. Know the difference between ‘belief’ and ‘Stupidity’. Stupidity can also be based on arrogance - beware of that!

Our belief and trust should make us calm during such tough times. They should make us pillar of strengths for the people in our lives. Belief means I play my trust but don’t condition the outcome of my prayer!

Now, this post is not only for this pandemic situation. It also applies to every ‘tough’ or ‘testing situation’ in our life.

We may be going through some testing situation in our –

a.physical level – meaning we may fall sick or be living with some ailment, disturbance in our health, experiencing some sort of pain or discomfort in our daily routine.

b.Relationship level – our personal relationships may be on the verge of sinking maybe. Maybe, we are going through some tough differences of opinion or tough fights. Maybe, we are not on talking terms with our near and dear ones.

c. Financial level – This pandemic is throwing surprises of all sorts on all levels. Finance could be the most common one of them!

d. Emotional level – Fear, fights, depression, anger, frustration and what on could be our emotional state due to various reasons now. You may feel you are going crazy. You feel being torn apart. The good news is so it is for many. When there is storm in the ocean, people in even big ships are thrown and tossed around quite often than not! No one is comfortable during ‘storms’ in ship – be it even as I Class passengers!

So instead of crying about it, complaining about it, use it to your advantage. Your emotions are your thermometer. It indicates your state of mind and where the problem is! Just sit to heal that problem area and you’ll come out of this ‘tough times’ a better, stronger, calmer person than you can imagine today! DO NOT LET GO OFF THIS PERIOD OF HEALING YOURSELF! Trust me on this!

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# pain and suffering, desire and its fulfillment, destiny, twists and turns of life, life - a miracle, unfolding of life events, everything happens for a reason, everything happens for good, 

also read suggested : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=little+boy 

Questions addressed : 

• My emotions are killing me. How do I tackle them?
• How can tough times be beneficial for anyone for that matter?
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Points to be understood : 

• When life throws a googly at you, how do you bat that? (googly is a term used in game cricket )
• "But I don't want to do anything. I just want this 'bad time' to vanish through some magic. I don't want to learn anything. I don't want to heal it. I am fed up of being forced to change for my good" - Good for you! But there is nothing much anybody - even God can do for such a mindset!
• Heal and transform. Those who transform transcend.
• Those who are stuck with their mindset are eventually wiped out. 
• How come 'logical mind' like yours not get it. You believe and propogate 'Darwin's theory of survival of the fittest' - right? 

Aarthi - this is not about you...........