On raising kids – me, my Guru

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On raising  kids – me, my Guru

h. when he loses faith while waiting or suffering some pain of his doing or others doing, just be there to build that trust and faith in him to keep going the right way.....

i. teach him the right from wrong instead of just telling him "don't do this or do this" statements thrown at his face.

j. don't set a wrong example and expect him to come out right.....if you lie don't expect him to tell the truth (don't say other members of the family do etc.....etc..). YOU don't lie and he'll pick that from you.....set an example that he can't overlook

k. create good memories - not expensive ones.......good memories can be created even when you are away from him. You can create beautiful times/memories without spending a single pie .......

l. teach him to love people and use things. don't lavish him with things and comforts so much that he starts loving things and using people. 

m. when someone shouts or scolds him, don't pamper him or talk wrongly about that person to him. Instead teach him to see the good  in that act......

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also read : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=purpose+of+rose+plant

(All the points are given in concise as they have already been discussed many times before.....any point seems vague or questionable let me know, will explain in detail...
i presumed that these points are self-evident and clear)