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Me, my Guru – On Trust!
She applied it correctly. This was detachment. Separating the act from the person and assigning ‘the value’ to the act and behaving with the person ‘the right way’! We usually mix them both and hence our emotions play havoc in our lives but her emotions were balanced. And today she gave us the reason and a way to know why and how!
The big question was “would we want to apply it in our lives? Would we choose to do that? Or let go off one more chance to learn and apply right attitude and technique and benefit from the same or go back to our comfort zone of complaining and suffering with – but why no miracle happens in my life?
-no one sets my life in order
-why can I never be happy? Etc, etc....
Or the classic – all this is fine, but doesn’t apply to my situation and problem and I am where I am!
She gave us the solution to our problems by living it but we chose to ignore it because we were adamant and stupid enough to want the solution the way we wanted it. We never listened to her. We wanted her to say words that we wished to hear. No doubt we had our anger reserved for her. Whether she knew or not, i knew not. Whether it bothered her or not, I knew not. But she let us heal ourselves and our complaints at our pace ....
also read : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=hurt
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