…contd….
Now, before going further, let
me explain the common allegation ‘madam, you never give straight answers. Why can’t
you just say ‘yes’ or no’? Because you don’t want and won’t take it!
Suppose you ask me a simple
question ‘should I marry this person though my parents are against it? And if I
say ‘yes’ you would immediately say ‘but what about my parents? I don’t want to
hurt them and I can’t loose them too! Please tell me what to do. Please guide
me.’
Then I say ‘forget the boy and
marry the one your family chooses’ you immediately say ‘no. I can’t forget him.
I’ll never marry anyone else!’ so, now tell me will my simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’
solve your query. So, instead of saying what you ought to do, I explain what’s
bothering you, what happens if you marry as per your choice or as per parents
choice. I explain the benefits and loses in both the scenario and show you
where your fear comes from. Then when you are shown the stakes and the
consequences, you know what to do. You do it with conviction and are happy
(atleast while taking decisions) and that is important.
Here, I said openly tell your
Guru’s name and you came up with so many reasons and justification but didn’t
follow it. Why? Because, humans by nature are not made to be ‘sheep following a
shepherd blindly’. As much as few religions preach it, it is not practical. We can’t
blindly follow a set or rules – be it given by family, master, kith or kin or
society. We are given ‘freewill’ to choose by God and it is sin not to use it
correctly. We are not using it rightly because of ignorance. We get caught in
the situation and become emotional. We become emotionally blinded and hence can’t
see the situation objectively. When an outsider gives you an insight of the
same situation objectively and without any personal agenda, you know the pros
and cons of doing an act and then you can decide how to act accordingly then. But
remember, you decide. I can show the path, but walk you should. You are not
dogs to be trained to behave in a certain way. You are divine souls who’ve
right to experience the life the way you choose. Yes, you may choose the pain
and suffering but that doesn’t negate your right to choose your experience and learning
process. No one can question it or stop it. My job here is to tell or show the
consequences of various choices that you make. Show you various possibilities
with regards to your response to a situation, to expressing yourself and to act
in accordance with your higher self.
Once you have your various
options and their affect on you, your journey, I am sure it must be easier for
you to take the call.
So, if you see through all the
posts, the topics covered may be many but the common thread is just one – to help
you see through the ignorance and win over your fear and there by realize that ‘you
are the Divine Soul and to Act accordingly!’ (ofcourse, this doesn’t apply to
topics of cosmology though. Except that all other topics come under this
category and serve this one purpose only!)
To sum up, all our emotions and
attitudes are interlinked and hence any attitude that comes to my notice through
your comments, questions etc I immediately will notice and explain about it so
that you work on it, overcome it and finally realize your potential – your Divinity.
Remember, I am not interested in your acts, I am looking at the intent behind
the act and ask you to sit in Sadhan. So do re-birth with ingratitude, fear of
expression to overcome your fear.
So, please read once again all
these posts regarding this topic and if any doubts, please come out with them
now….it’s better to ask and to know. That way chances of you wanting to heal
them is more.
Concluded….
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