Sunday, October 7, 2012




If you say “I love him/her because she/ he makes me happy” then that is no love.  Never marry a person because you think you can be happy with them. You never will!

But, if you say “Happiness means nothing if I don’t have her/him to share it with” then that is love……don’t let go off this person in your life…….only one in a million get to meet such a person in their lives…blessed are those few who get to live such a relationship…….for love is only for the chosen…..it doesn’t happen to every Tom, Dick and Harry……

13 comments:

mohan said...

“Happiness means nothing if I don’t have her/him to share it with” then that is love……don’t let go off this person in your life…….I agree completely.
Did anybody come across such a person in their life....?
I have.

mohan said...

But is it possible to punish such a person after an argument ?....I wonder.

REVATHI said...

yes...ofcourse.but one who punishes suffers more than the one who is punished...and as far as i know there is no arguments in such relationships - only discussions because ego can't exist where love is and to argue one needs to have an ego....

mohan said...

How can you say that "one who punishes suffers more than the one who is punished?" Who decides that...? OR Is it a rule that the punisher ALWAYS suffers more than the one who is punished...?

Anyway... I think such persons are called Soul-mates. What do you say..?

mohan said...

How can you say that "one who punishes suffers more than the one who is punished?" Who decides that...? OR Is it a rule that the punisher ALWAYS suffers more than the one who is punished...?

Anyway... I think such persons are called Soul-mates. What do you say..?

R.Vaibhav Lal said...

i feel if love b/w 2 persons is true ie.. the way which mam has said

"Happiness means nothing if I don’t have her/him to share it with” then that is love"

then surely the punisher suffers more than the punished beause there is love between them and beause of the mutual love even if 1 of the partner is hurt the other will feel the pain!!!

"suffers" here means the emotional imbalance or hurt which is felt at that point of time...b/w the 2 people

the punished may feel bad but since the punisher also loves him/her then he/she will also feel bad...

R.Vaibhav Lal said...

Dear Mam...
i would sincerely like to know what does it mean when u say

"EVERYTHING IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR"

R.Vaibhav Lal said...

Dear Mam...
i would sincerely like to know what does it mean when we say...

"EVERYTHING IS FAIR IN LOVE & WAR"

mohan said...

If there is love bet 2 people then why should one person punish the other person and both of them feel the pain and suffer...?
It is foolishness...
If you love then why punish the other person

R.Vaibhav Lal said...

if your loved 1 is doing something wrong in front of u..& if he is nt ready to understnd what he is upto then there is no way left to u apart from punishing him...coz a short term loss/pain is better than a long term one..ur punishing him is lyk a short term pain..which if nt given at proper time may lead him to sumthng for which he has 2 suffer for a long time...WHICH U WILL ALSO NEVER LIKE..

& i feel that v only punish ppl whom v love..if we dont love any1 then v may try 2 warn that person once or twice coz of humanity & if he does nt listen...u leave him 2 his FATE & KARMA!!!

R.Vaibhav Lal said...

1 mor thing which i feel is

WEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS IF LOVE IS 1 SIDE OF THE COIN THEN ANGER IS THE OTHER!!!

R.Vaibhav Lal said...

every relationship in yourlife is a gift 2 u! the way u live it and the way u treat ur partner will decidethe future relatioships of your life!!

R.Vaibhav Lal said...

Dear Mam...
i would sincerely like to know what does it mean when we say...

"EVERYTHING IS FAIR IN LOVE & WAR"

dear mam...i request your kind self to please take some time & answer this question of mine!!

please mam!!
please!!