Wisdom condensed!

(India)

Wisdom condensed!

A belief!

why good times fall apart?

Why good things fall apart?

And yes, it pains to see the 'known' and 'comfort zone' wash away in front of you to pave way for the unknown and unseen......its fearful yet inevitable.......

You have no hold on 'things that are going away from your hold'. You never can! So learn to accept that! Accept that you can't stop 'things' and 'relationships' from falling apart when the time comes.......

Learn to accept that 'dawn' has to come after 'dead and dark night' and night follows dawn.........Your fear for 'dark' cannot stop it from coming.......your fear is not enough of a reason for it to stop coming....

you also don't have choice on things and people that are coming into your life........change is always fearful and painful...adjustment takes time....either you embrace it and learn from it or adjust to it or perish with your denial - that is your choice!

You can exercise your choice only with regards to your feelings, emotions and actions with relation to the change that occurs in your life.....Take charge of ' that' ONE things which is in your control and see the way the world changes - for good!

Applications of Il Dolce far Niente!

….contd…..

We don’t know if we understood IDFN explained to us correctly but we learned these beautiful truths while trying to apply IDFN.

We feel enriched with these insights and experiences and we thank-you Guruji for these experiences. Please tell us if we have missed any points”

Today, all through our talks and discussions she was just looking at us, one after the other with a smile which didn’t part her lips but reached her eyes. When I posed her the question, she just smiled, nodded her head and left us.

We didn’t know what to make of her stance. Was she happy? Were we right? Or were we totally off-course? Did we miss the main point that she was trying to tell us? We wouldn’t know. But yet…………we were happy with this exercise. It enriched us in so many ways and also gave us a ‘way of living’ which seemed ‘livable’ and ‘applicable to every day living’. Moreover, happiness seemed so at reach. Wow! It was good feeling and all vetoed on this feeling. We left her place satisfied, happy, rich and fuller today. It was as if we crossed a very special mile-stone today! Kudos to us and to all such reasons that postponed our sharing of experiences all these days! Now all we had to do was put this ‘know-how’ to good use………….can’t wait!

....concluded....