Love and trust

Situation A :

I love you but don't trust you........


Situation B :

I trust you but don't love you......


Situation C:

I love you inspite of knowing you.......

Situation D:

I thought I knew you and hence loved you......but now that I know you better love's gone.......

Is every situation clear to you?
Which is better in your opinion?
With whom would you associate each of this situation?
What are the pains and pleasures you receive in each of this situation?

Think about it and write about it clearly.........then you'll know the exact colour of each of your relationship.........

I am OK, You are not OK.....

The day you realize that - 

Not always I am right.......
Sometimes others also can be right......
And if I am wrong I am not ashamed of accepting it and seeking forgiveness from the concerned person.........
and few times both of us can be right inspite of not having the same view or opinion about the subject/person................

that day you'll not suffer in relationships......

Basis of good relationships is that -
We can agree to disagree and disagreement is associated with thoughts and feelings but we agree is because we love and respect each other.......

Yes, only people who respect each other can afford to hold different views and yet not let that effect their relationship with each other..........

think about it.......

Notice - Karuna Reiki Class

I regret the mistake with regards to date of karuna reiki class....

As mentioned earlier it is not 21st but 28th of this month - sunday at 9.30 am...those who have confirmed please make it possible to attend the same on 28th .......sorry about the error............

you can confirm in comments section (which ofcourse will not be published) or send a mail ........


class will be conducted in the same venue as earlier...........

Are we fooling others or ourselves?

….contd….

 And when I applied for self it was liberating. Atleast I didn’t know that I was wrong when I was doing it. Wow! Feels so good….but is it true?  No. I wouldn’t go there. Here I’ll take her word for it and will believe that I was innocent of my wrong-doing at the time of my act-doing. I laughed at my own conclusion!

But which was more dangerous and harmful in the long run I wondered!  Was it that I fooled myself or that I played games with others and did all sorts of things to fool them? I couldn’t continue my line of thoughts as my work sought my attention and I had to do quite a bit of thinking to address the issue at hand.  Well, this was important as of now. My internal journey and self-discovery could wait.

Afterall, it was not time bound. Good! I could do it at leisure and at my pace……and so I just let it be for now…………

concluded.......

Are we fooling ourselves or others?

....contd.....

“Issue is not if others are aware of it or not. Issue is cat presuming that no one is seeing it. It’s presumption gives it the confidence to drink the milk and also lap up the satisfaction that it has fooled everyone!

What is, is not important. What one thinks is. Because we believe and live in our mind and in mind if I have believed that I have fooled everyone, I presume so. When on the contrary, I haven’t fooled anyone but myself.

“How can I fool myself? I do know that I am lying, manipulating, deceiving or cheating others.  When I know that how can I feel that I am right?” asked Swetha confused.

“Many times we don’t even want to believe that we are doing so. We first convince ourselves to believe that we are doing all this to help or protect others. We paint it with colours of concern, affection and get away believing ourselves as good people sensitive to others feelings.  Once we believe that we are not wrong in our opinion”.

I saw Swetha, Priya and Rahul nod their head knowingly. Few others also seemed to understand what she was saying. But to me, I was as much in confusion as before this talk. I didn’t know if it was because I joined in the middle of conversation or I genuinely was dumb enough not to grasp this. Yet I felt and I wanted to believe that this day didn’t go waste for me. I may not have understood everything she said, yet it would keep working on my thought process and someday I would understand this. Yes, it’s happened so many times before that there was no doubt left in me atleast with regards to this issue.

Next I did get few points from this conversation. But before I could catch further points, my phone rand and I had to rush to address an emergency. No problem!

One thing was for sure. No one did anything thinking they are wrong. I mean 90% of them. They did wrong thinking it to be right. Just this thought was so funny, intriguing and yet liberating. Yes, when I applied this to people who considered themselves as intelligent and well informed, it seemed funny. These were the people who considered themselves as “Protectors of Right” and “Punishers of wrong doers” and yet these were the people who were doing more wrongs than rights and yet were proud of being right. How funny!”

The more I applied in various situations and various people it was intriguing.

...contd.....

Are we fooling others or ourselves ?

Me, My Guru

“Cat drinks milk with eyes closed. It thinks no one is watching it because it has closed its eyes. How stupid!” finished my Guru.

By the time I had come there were lots of students listening to her. I think she was explaining a point or someone must have asked a question.

I didn’t know the context yet what I heard was enough for me.  I had come with an agitated mind and a heavy heart that sought an answer to this very question.

“Why are people manipulative and deceive others? How can they so blatantly lie and think they can get away? Do they really think that others can’t see through their games? But what I heard was enough to clarify my doubts.

“But the fact remains that everyone is noticing the cat drink milk. They know it. So, what’s the big deal?” asked Priya clearly agitated and almost in tears.

I was glad she asked this question. My question would be answered now and I need not feel guilty of missing out on their explanation!

That time it stuck me how much we all were same with regards to our pain, suffering and pleasure! No doubt one man’s question answered so many peoples’ question. We lived the same pain and pleasures of life. That way we all were one! How uncreative we were in leading our lives? We lived exactly as everyone else. So strange and yet so satisfying! Strange that we thought always that we were unique! That our life was different and that our emotions, intellect and achievement in short everything that mattered in our life was special and different and yet it wasn’t so! Satisfying because it meant not only me but all others were also suffering the same pain. It also meant all others were also tackling the same insecurities and failing in overcoming it. Yes, in a way it was satisfying. Why and how I couldn’t realize as our Guru’s words cut through my thoughts. 

...contd.....

Notice - Karuna Reiki Class

This is for inform that Karuna Reiki Class will be conducted on 21st June 2015 at 9.30am at the Centre at Malkajgiri. Those who are interested to attend may confirm through mail or in comments section along with phone no. for me to give further details if need be............

Mr.Murali is conducting all degree classes of reiki and magnified healing and other courses at the same centre regularly...those interested in any degree may also contact for the same........