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Saturday, September 6, 2025

Sadhan for September 2025

 


Sadhan for September 2025




This month end we have Navarathri starting. So, let’s club sadhan with the need of the hour.

Our tradition is to clean the house for Dassera and Deepavali. So, this month, let’s clean our houses.

May be just one shelf a week, one rack a week. Choice is yours. You can clean just a bureau, almirah, rack or the entire room. Choice is yours – as always!

But, clean!

That is the first sadhan.

Second, do re-birth meditation with “fear”, “ego”, and “anger”.


Each week at least do it twice. Those who can do more number of times, can do so.

So, that week at least you would have done twice each of the attitudes selected by us to heal this month.

Next, let’s take up a relationship. Do EH with the same. Do it at least twice a week.

Relationships suggested are : parents, spouse, siblings

Do “homam” minimum of twice a week.

Do “Vastu healing” minimum of twice a week.

That’s all for this month!


Come back with your experiences, observations, feedback at the end of the month.

All will benefit because of the Pooja that you will do for Dassera and Deepavali. But, those who do the above sadhan will receive more than those who don’t. Not to freak you out. Not to pressurize you. Do not be intimidated. Relax and make choices as you wish to. Just gave you a heads up and fyi for you to take informed decision based on data available. That’s all!

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Monday, June 30, 2025

Sadhan July 2025

 


Sadhan July 2025


 


Do re-birth meditation with fear at least thrice per week.

 


Do Vastu healing at least 3 times per week.

 

Do Earth healing at least 2 times per week.

 


Do Emotional healing with your near and dear one (one who matters to you/one who you think you love/like a lot)  2 times per week.

 


Share something good that happened to you (old or new), or an experience, understanding in the blog at least once a week. (OPTIONAL)



Sit under a tree, listen to birds, touch the tree – 15mts minimum 

Those who can do more number of times do it!

 

It may seem like a lot to do, but write it down and make a time-table, it is very doable – easily too!

You may select any of the ones you want to do, as ever I’ll be there doing it with you – each one of the above – every single day – so always REMEMBER, you are not alone in this!

 

Come back with your experiences, observations every weekend or month end as per your convenience.

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Monday, March 17, 2025

Learning from the Old – As you like it!

 


Learning from the Old – As you like it!

 




When put together both “Peace of mind – A boy and the girl and As you like it” the understanding that you exhibited is “…” shared by Mona, Kshitija, Swathi.

I’ll just sum up the understandings:

·        We view the other based on WHO we are! Not on who the other person is!

Once we understand and accept this point, we’ll realize that the judgements that we make of others reflect who we! So, let’s be cautious there.


Next, to accept love, receive love, validate love and to be grateful for the same, we must have given love in the first place. Only then, can we truly understand and appreciate when it is received. Otherwise, entire life though the others keep showering us with love and respect, all we can see and feel is “insult, emptiness, self-pity, loneliness, depression and related feelings and emotions”.

The same applies to other feelings like respect, help, genuinity and so on.



·        If we can’t trust others, it shows we have been cheating others regularly. The more we cheat others, the less we trust others. And then we ask “But, how can I trust Guru/Reiki if they are not fulfilling my THIS wish?”. We can NEVER TRUST anyone in life. We use that word to manipulate the other to dance to our tunes. But, in actuality we can never trust others.



Only the day we become honest in our dealings with others can we trust anyone in life.

Only the day we give others their worth can we trust that we don’t have to cheat or manipulate to receive our due.

Sit on this.



·        Our fear is directly proportionate to our character.

The one who manipulates is full of fear.



The one who lies is full of fear.

The one who cheats, is full of fear.

The one who is pretentious is full of fear.



And we thought, fear was inevitable!! Ha, ha!

The one who is genuine doesn’t fear.

The one who talks truth doesn’t fear.



The one who gives others what is due doesn’t fear.

The one who is true, doesn’t fear.

Now, it’s up to one and all to decide if we need to live with fear or not!



The Degree of fear in the person reflects various attitudes that need to be healed in him.



·        People you meet, interact and get involved with in your life are so because of “who you are!”



Change the way you are and the same person’s behavior changes for better.

Remember, “YOUR OUTER WORLD IS THE REFLECTION OF YOUR INNER WORLD” OR IN OTHER WORDS “YOUR OUTER WORLD IS THE REFLECTION OF WHO YOU ARE”.

The Only way to change your World is to change yourself!!



These are just a few of the points. 

Read the posts suggested and meditate on them.

Look at reasons for not understanding more. Heal them. Then, take up the links and read them again and receive better understanding. 

Share........

Concluded....

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# boy and the girl, emotions, peace of mind, you are what you read, situations don’t make or break us we do, outer world reflection of inner world, change yourself change your world, changing the World, World peace, mass energies, perspective, understanding, clarity of thought, fear, fearlessness, trust, 


Thursday, March 13, 2025

Grace healings – Swathi – for determination to complete the sadhan!

 


Grace healings – Swathi – for determination to complete the sadhan!




Bless you!


Will send Reiki for 3 days!

Couldn’t do the said sadhan in the allotted time. Normal!

But, taking that up and doing it at a later date – very rare!


Commendable – for that discipline, commitment, desire to complete the task though a bit late, overcoming shyness and fear of rebuke by others (assumed usually by others) for doing sadhan beyond the said date.

This also states that she is working on “completing the task given by her Master” rather than finding excuses to not be able to do it.


Yes, we may have reasons that make it difficult to complete the task, but finding a way to go around that “reason” is a mark of a spiritual sadhak. Kudos for that! That shows she is a "shishya" in letter not just in word. https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2009/07/guru.html

Just see – in a simple way we exhibit and develop all these qualities. Every job/responsibility/routine is there in our life to develop such qualities that make us. These are the ways we develop the qualities essential to walk the spiritual path. https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/09/me-my-guru-role-of-guru.html


These are the ways we come closer to our spirit.

These are the ways we disengage ourselves from our ego.

And that in turn loosens the hold of “karma” over us and our destiny.

And you thought, it was just a normal boring sadhan that could be done at your leisure!!??

Destiny – you make it or break it – with your daily routine.



Do not use Gurus, Reiki or God to abuse for your lapses in developing these qualities.

Destiny is literally in our hands – especially as a Reiki Channel!

Write it your way!

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Friday, December 20, 2024

Me My Guru – on fate, destiny and karma

 


Contd....

Me My Guru – on fate, destiny and karma




Years passed. Guru and shishya would be in sadhan all through the day and night too! Time was not taken in consideration by them.” Only the day one doesn’t feel the time has he actually become eligible to be walking the path of spirituality. All other times, he is just flaring his ego with imaginations and assumptions. Wake up! Know yourself. Face the facts! Declare war on them. And become free of these shackles that stop your flight!


Once during the meditations, Guru saw the death of his shishya in 7 days. He was shaken a bit. He meditated and regained his calm.” – There are two points here. One is that to the one who is regular in sadhan (drawing symbols to get bus, saying lines of gratitude 10-20 times a day don’t count as sadhan in such cases) will develop abilities like premonition, clairvoyance and so on.

Understand them correctly. I said “abilities” – read them as such only. They are not “powers” as usually assumed to be and talked as. They are just abilities that we get as collateral to our sadhan. They are not the be all of our sadhan. Know that!


Second, is Guru was shaken when he saw the vision. We want to “SEE” many things but are we ready to “SEE” them? Many times, a big no!

When such a time comes learn from the Guru. He didn’t run away. He didn’t start crying. He MEDITATED AND REGAINED HIS CALM. Whenever we are shaken, sadhan is the place to be. Go back to sadhan, regain your composure and then resume your job. Only after you gain your calm, take any decisions.


Don’t come calling me. Don’t be angry that I am not available at all odd times for you. I am not your private property. Sadhan is the ONLY way to get that calm. Even if I meet you or talk to you, I am going to ask you to do the same. But, no, you want me to DO REIKI for you. Till that nature stays with you, fear will toss you as it feels right. The problem is not the situation. Know that! The problem is that "there is fear". And that fear is within you. Know this. Accept it. And work on it. Heal it. Overcome it. Transcend it! Become free of fear! You don't need it - remember that!

Sadhan, sadhan, and more sadhan when shaken – REMEMBER THAT!

Contd....

# me my Guru series, fate and destiny, karma, fate altered, destiny overcome, destiny, attitude, future and present, past and present, 

also read suggested further on this topic https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/11/on-understanding-karma-in-real-life_01398572845.html 



Friday, October 25, 2024

On Avoidable pain and suffering!

 


Contd....

On Avoidable pain and suffering!




Just because my parent or Guru didn’t behave my way, it doesn’t make them bad people. By all means, they may actually be “good ones” and hence they didn’t fall into your definition of a “good person”. What a joke would that be?!

So, let’s not crib every time things go haywire.

Let’s take a break and breathe.

Let’s sit to look at it objectively.


Let’s sit back and look at it as a third person.

See if it really is bad, and if so, then what is the procedure to correct it.

All techniques are taught in “II degree” class of Reiki. Every problem in life has been taught to be addressed with the necessary technique. Do it. Don’t expect someone to give you a date on which the problem would be solved. Just keep doing till it is resolved.

Go back in your time.

See how long you have healed for a certain desire or a problem to be solved.

That’s exactly where your answer is.

Draw the energy of trust from your experiences. Draw commitment from the desire to resolve your issue. Draw patience from your sadhan. And get to work on hand!

Remember, “EVEN THIS SHALL PASS”


Like always you will find some solution this time too.

Things will work out your way or a better way when in sadhan.

You will also come out stronger with every situation you face!

So, face that inner demon of fear and doubt.

Get up and express your potential of hidden stamina that you have to face any obstacle in your life!

Concluded....

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# suffering and pain, suffering is optional, lessons of life, situations of life, 




Saturday, October 5, 2024

Grace healings – on being honest and for giving feedback!

 


Grace healings – On being honest and for giving feedback!




I had posed a question. https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/09/feedback-required.html?showComment=1727141113361

Only three seemed to have read it and responded to it – Rahul, Kshitija and Swathi.

Their response says:

One, they find the pointers useful to understand better. That means, their understanding otherwise was a little less than what is now! That shows that they are AWARE.

It also tells that they are accepting their ignorance. Good! They did not hush it or try to put the blame on something else. They owned it. That is the PRE-REQUISITE to WALK THE SPIRITUAL PATH!

Owning our weaknesses takes us towards our strengths!

Knowing that “I don’t know” is also a great knowing!

When they accepted they benefitted they overcame their fear of rebuke (due to ignorance) and walked towards being fearless, brave and courage! See, it is as simple as that to develop these qualities.


They asked for the pointers to be continued. Asking for help openly tells that the person is working on being HUMBLE! WOW TO THAT! That is THE MOST IMPORTANT QUALITY TO OVERCOME EGO AND KARMA! Every step in that direction is worth the celebration.


By stating that they understood better with the pointers they also are appreciating ‘the quality of the writing’. Appreciation is the quality required to correct our karmas regarding our ‘relationships’. They are working on that!


Not knowing or ignorance is not the bane. Recognizing it is the first step to overcome it. Doing everything within your power to overcome it is the right step towards “freedom from ignorance”. They are there! Applause for that!So, you see, our every act, expresses our direction, intent and character (that is and that is being worked on too).

So, for all the qualities that they expressed through this simple feedback, I am pleased with their effort. As always, I am showing my appreciation by sending Reiki to these noble souls for a month……..

And yes, as requested by them and for them, I will continue giving the pointers as before till I get feedback otherwise!!!

And just like that, even others benefit from this request of theirs! What a way to live - just by being right, honest and sincere we make a difference - a positive one in others' life too!


Wow! wow! and a thousand wow to all that!

Continue being so - again and again - till you reach your goal!


Also read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/08/me-my-guru-on-purpose-of-life_13.html