On Trials and winning!

On Trials and winning!

on getting results!

On getting results!



If you are not getting what you want by doing what you are doing or have done it means just two things - 

Either what you are doing or have done is not right enough

or

What you are doing and what you have done is not enough.

For eg: if you are doing say hands-on since 3 years and yet one wish of yours is not fulfilled then it means - 

a. That you are not doing hands-on right - say like doing full body in just 20 mts (just an eg.) which will not be counted as full body in real way.....

b. Your wish has a requirement of 4 years of hands on and you have done just 3 years of hands on.

apply it for all the sadhan techniques be it pooja, japam, pranayamam etc........so either keep doing it for the stipulated time or increase the dosage to reduce the time.....

AND MOST IMPORTANT - No one here is your bonded labour waiting to carry out your orders of fulfilling your desire to its fulfillment........so stop holding others responsible to work for you....

Next, your anger towards Guru / Reiki / God will only delay your healing process........no one is here to please you after hearing your @#$%

SO MOST IMPORTANT WORK ON YOUR ATTITUDE AS YOU WAIT FOR YOUR TIME TO COME.......


Questions answered -

What I should do to get my desire fulfilled?

Why my pooja etc not showing results.......?

# God, Guru, Wish fulfillment, desire, fate and destiny

Give me an answer!

Give me an answer!

answers are there in the blog - you all are just forgetful of what is already told or too lazy to search for your answer.......

either way it reflects your attitude towards your own wish / desire ........

if it is not worth enough for you to do these jobs, then???

and still God/guru/Reiki are bad for not fulfilling your wishes.......???

Questions answered and points worth pondering :-

If you want to hear what you want to hear then don't ask your master for an answer..........

If you want the procedure your way then go ahead with it, you are where you are because of who you are and what you do already......and you are not happy being there and still you want to be adamant about being 'here' and doing just what you already are doing?

Wish and its fulfillment

Wish and its fulfillment

EVERYONE WANTS TO GO TO HEAVEN BUT NO ONE WANTS TO DIE..........apply it rightly in each of your case /desire list and 

NO - wish fulfillment is not any ones' right that they can demand from anyone...........if only people understood that their suffering would be long gone.......

Questions answered : 

Why and how are wishes are fulfilled?

What should we do that God fulfills our wishes sooner than later?

#on wisdom, freewill, on fate and destiny, on celebrating life, milestone, on character, 

On creator and creation

On creator and creation

There are approximately (this is just the rough figure based on discoveries made till date.....not taken into account those of galaxies not yet discovered or noticed) one hundred billion galaxies in the observable universe.  

Can any of you even imagine the number given? I can't!

This is the level of creation and the work of 'The Creator' who is creating at such magnitude. And now, YOU THINK HE is busy TESTING YOU  and creating PROBLEMS FOR YOU?

Think aloud your thoughts!

Listen to yourself!

Do you really think HE is such a jobless and sadist to keep sending troubles our way?

HE just created us and the Universe! And left it to ourselves to sort and live our lives our way. HE knew our great desires and sense of 'right and wrong'. And so to keep everything in order all HE did was create 'simple laws of Nature' that govern all the 'beings'.

That is called as 'Law of karma' which states 'As we sow, so we reap' meaning whatever we are reaping today is the outcome of our 'good deeds' of all the yesterdays. 

And if what we are bearing now is painful, tough, disgusting then what does that mean?

Think, think about it!

Questions answered - 

Why am I suffering?

Why God/Guru/Reiki is not giving me what I want?

Why Guru/God are testing us by giving us what pains us?

I did pooja etc and yet my wish is not fulfilled?

Why am I suffering when all others are fine?

Also read for better understanding and revising all that you have forgotten or not wanting to consider while complaining/ suffering/ questioning etc......

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=karma

# karma, on fate and destiny, challenges of life, character, concept of God, dharma, 

on losing your guide!

On losing your guide!


It's rare to come across someone who loves you inspite of knowing you.

It's even rare that that person has the capacity to guide you to know yourself and bring out the best version of yourself.

Each person's search would validate above statements.

And yet when and if we come across someone who can answer our questions which had been pending since long we don't seem to realize their worth.

Even when we see their worth we don't validate it. 

And yet with that person we haggle as in fish market.

And yet we don't question the 'odd situations' which crop up which bring out our 'self' which makes us not so proud of ourselves.

We question the person who can guide us.

We lose the 'lamp' that could have lit our paths over trivial things. That showcases our character. But we are blinded by our ego and justify our actions and point of view.

We lose 'once' more chance to meet ourselves.

We are the losers - in the bargain. Never the 'person' who can guide us. He doesn't lose us. He doesn't lose anything by losing us. 

He goes on to guide someone 'worthy' of the name.

We have lost the 'worthiness' to be on this path.

We are the losers! Not the one we can called names!

The  'nature' removes the 'undeserving' from entering into the 'right path' by putting tests in the form unrealized by us. And in that situations which are actual tests of our character we 'behave as per our nature' and 'fail miserably'.

We are the stumbling blocks in our lives.

We are reason why we receive what we receive in life.

think, think carefully.............

On treating an enemy!

On treating an enemy!



చంపదగిన ఎట్టి శత్రువు చేత చిక్కేనేనని 
కీడు సేయ రాదు 
నొసఁగఁ మేలు చేసీ పొమ్మనుటే చాలు 
విశ్వదాభిరామ వినుర వేమా 

Enemy who deserves to be killed

if is in your captivity, do no kill him

do whatever good you can do to him and ask him to leave.....



What does these lines tell you?

Where do you think you can and have applied?

Do you think it is practically applicable?

Who all can apply it in their lives and in what situations?

# on treating an enemy, hatred, forgiveness, on attitude, on character, dharma, challenges of life, A poem -, expectations, freewill, freedom, 

On clarity of thought!

On clarity of thought!


It is good to stand by your family.

It is even better to love them.

But if that love blinds you then it is taking you into 'samsara' and that is the cause of you creating 'karma'.

Be detached when you evaluate a situation and see 'them' for what they are and be released from this 'karma'.

If you are blinded by love, then it is no 'love' in real sense.

It is being 'manipulated' by the other. 

beware of such manipulations........that happens often with and in relations who are closest to us and whom we trust.......

Only the person whom we trust can cheat us - never forget that!

On knowing!

On knowing!

We stay with people for 20-30 years and think we know them.

But do we?

We assume them to be what 'we want' them to be!

Because we identify them with us and our 'ego' we 'see' them for what we want them to be and not for 'what they are'!

ONLY if you are able to 'see' your near and dear ones for who they are - you are living a life which is 'truthful'.

You are being truthful to yourself if you accept them for what they are. If you are justifying their wrongs and supporting them then not only are they wrong you also are part of that 'wrong doing karma' that they incur!

Don't let 'attachment' and 'ego' bring you down into the quagmire of 'karma' because you are blind to their wrongs and attitudes.

On disease!

Contd.........

On disease!

Then comes the ‘attitude’ of the person that decides both the cause of disease and the cure for it.

And hence it is said a good physician cures the disease but the great one ‘cures the person’.

So what ever be the disease one is carrying with him – be it physical, social, emotion (like anger, desperation etc), financial or desire not being fulfilled – instead of being angry at having a disease or having to face it, we should look within for the cure.

Disease when seen as an expression of ourselves trying to tell us about our ‘zones of discomfort’ help us to look there to heal ourselves of our limitations and limited nature.

As long as we fight our disease, we become or remain its victims.

The day we embrace it, it becomes our gateway towards happiness and abundance.

So what is your ‘disease’ and how are you going to use that to your advantage?

Points to ponder - 

What exactly is our disease?

What is the cause of it?

How to address? 

On disease!

On disease!

Disease is only a healthy response to an unhealthy environment!

And an unhealthy environment is a work of our emotions and thoughts which we collectively call as 'karma'.

We create our own 'environment' and 'issues' in our life to cater to our longings and desires.

And so it is important to know ‘what sort of person has a disease’ rather than having and wanting to know ‘what disease he has’.

Because every disease has a person behind it trying to address it his way. And no two ways are same for the same disease.

No two person get healed the same way too!

How interesting is that!

...contd....

Questions answered - 

Why do I get disease inspite of being good/doing reiki/pooja etc.?

safar poem by Nida fazil

safar poem by Nida fazil 



सफर ने धूप तो होगी जो चल सको तो चलो 
सभी हैं भीड़ में तुम भी निकल सको तो चलो 

There's going to be sun in this journey, if you can - walk (meaning it is not going to be easy or filled with shade in this journey of life, but if you think you can make it then get up and walk)
everyone is in this crowd or part of crowd, if you think you can then stand apart...

किसी के वास्ते राहें कहाँ बदलती हैं 
तुम अपने आप को ख़ुद ही बदल सको तो चलो 

paths don't change for anyone
if you can change yourself (by yourself) then walk......

यहां किसी को कोई रास्ता नहीं देता 
मुझे गिराके अगर तुम संभल सको तो चलो 

no one gives others an opportunity or way,
if you think you can walk over me and yet hold yourself up - then walk.........

Poem by Hindi's great poet - Nirad fazli

Poem by Hindi's great poet - Nirad fazli


कहीं छत थी, दीवारो-दर थे कहीं
मिला मुझको घर का पता देर से
दिया तो बहुत ज़िन्दगी ने मुझे
मगर जो दिया वो दिया देर से


हुआ न कोई काम मामूल से
गुजारे शबों-रोज़ कुछ इस तरह
कभी चाँद चमका ग़लत वक़्त पर
कभी घर में सूरज उगा देर से

कभी रुक गये राह में बेसबब
कभी वक़्त से पहले घिर आयी शब
हुए बन्द दरवाज़े खुल-खुल के सब
जहाँ भी गया मैं गया देर से 

ये सब इत्तिफ़ाक़ात का खेल है
यही है जुदाई, यही मेल है
मैं मुड़-मुड़ के देखा किया दूर तक
बनी वो ख़मोशी, सदा देर से 

सजा दिन भी रौशन हुई रात भी
भरे जाम लगराई बरसात भी
रहे साथ कुछ ऐसे हालात भी
जो होना था जल्दी हुआ देर से 

भटकती रही यूँ ही हर बन्दगी 
मिली न कहीं से कोई रौशनी
छुपा था कहीं भीड़ में आदमी
हुआ मुझमें रौशन ख़ुदा देर से

What's inside you?

What's inside you?

An orphan was standing on the beach looking at all the kids having fun with their parents and family. 

He saw those kids buying balloons and saw them 'let them go' off the balloons.

He noticed for sometime all these activities. After sometime, it hit him that the 'black balloons' flew higher than all the other coloured balloons.

He was surprised and amazed.

He came near the 'balloon man' and asked him for the explanation.

The balloon man smiled and said "It is not the colour of the balloon that decides its flight. It is what it is filled with that decides how high it flies. The black coloured balloons are filled with 'helium' and hence they fly higher than the rest of them."

what did you learn from this story?

Points to ponder and questions answered:

What makes one person a winner and the other loser?

What is the 'helium' that decides our flight in life?

also reads : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=sea+shore