Sunday, October 23, 2011

Me, My Guru




Pia : How could you not retaliate when that boy abused you in front of everyone? Are you not a man?
Rahul smiled and replied :

Once a Husband asked his wife "When I get mad at you, you never fight back. How do you control your anger?" and the Wife replied "I clean the toilet." Husband unable to hide his curiosity asked "How does that help?" to which Wife replied calmly "I use your toothbrush ."

Anger can be used both constructively and imaginatively to get even with the person. Get it?

A hard working person is one who fights his anger. He despises it and wants to suppress that emotion. But the smart person is one who uses anger constructively and productively.

For e.g.:
1. We can exercise whenever we are angry (if we get angry regularly) and thereby get a healthy and a more beautiful body.
2. We can clean the house or the premises whenever we are angry, thereby benefiting by living in a clean environment.
3. We can pickup a hobby like music, gardening etc and practice it whenever we are angry

Think of so many ways of using a great and powerful emotion like anger positively and for your benefit and growth……….while I check out of my weaknesses and see how I can use them to my benefit……

1 comment:

Aarthi said...

Great one mamm.cleaning with toothbrush