Strength and weakness!

 

Strength and weakness!

There is a wonderful saying, “When a man falls for everything he stands for nothing!”

Remember that.

Understand that!

Know what you are falling for!

If we are running amok because of our senses day in and day out, then there is no way we’ll have strength enough to stand up for anything worth a dime. The pain and suffering that we face because of which is known to all. We are not weak because of someone’s curse. We are weak because we FALL FOR EVERYTHING THAT CATCHES OUR FANCY!

We are run by our senses and in that weakness lies our biggest problem.

Wake up!

Rule your senses to live life kingsize.

Let your senses run you and live a life of penury.

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On spring cleaning - Do away with unused items!

 

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On spring cleaning - Do away with unused items!

Physically, the space is cleared.

The shelves look empty, clean and sorted.

Psychologically – it’s relieving. Feels unburdened.

Spiritually – we need to ask what are the things we need to keep. The things that are of no use can be thrown away.

The house that we stay in for a very short time in our life – well, we are ‘so proud’ of keeping it clean. We do this cleaning religiously. We take time, money, interest and energy to decorating it.

Then how much more should we bother about the mind that needs to be cleaned?

Is it not already established that it is what is in the mind that impacts our body?

Anything that takes us away from our ‘glorified version’ can be done away with.

Lies, manipulations, deceit and badmouthing that we have pushed under the carpet – let’s vacuum them off our ‘mind space’.

Our shame and guilt that we have hidden in our closets – let’s throw them away!

The ego that we carry on our sleeves – do we really need it that much?

Look at it closely to see how it is harming our relationships and life.

“Cleaning” is for the house we live.

“Healing” is for the body, mind and intellect that we live in.

Understand the relationship. 

Act accordingly!

Be as enthusiastic of cleaning the mind and ego as your houses!

Happy cleaning!

Concluded.....

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# spring cleaning, clarity of thought, mindfulness, awareness, chaotic and clarity, healing 

 

 

 

 

 

On spring cleaning - Do away with unused items!

 

Further to https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/11/on-spring-cleaning-task-of-sadhan-for.html  

On spring cleaning - Do away with unused items!

The best part of cleaning – the spring cleaning way is to find items that can be given away. The list was a long one as ever. I had 3-4 huge piles of clothes which were given away –

Sarees and blouses

Dresses

Petticoats

Nightwear

Bedsheets

Blankets

Pillows with covers

Cushions with covers

Bangles – old and new

Slippers and shoes

Doormats etc

Most of them are in excellent condition. It’s just that they have been around long with me – not necessarily used even!

The lady was happy with the giveaways.

The next pile is ready but not sure where and how to dispose off.

Cd’s, old wires, cables, records and record players, mixie, vacuum cleaner – mostly working some in repaired condition.

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# spring cleaning, clarity of thought, mindfulness, awareness, chaotic and clarity, healing 

Milestones of the year 2024 – 364 and counting!

 

Milestones of the year 2024 – 364 and counting!

Yes, finally we could cross 364 posts in one single year!!!

And to me, it seemed like a distant impossible dream – all these years!

This year, it is going to be the “HIGHEST NUMBER OF POSTS TILL DATE OF THIS BLOG” however much we post henceforth!

That’s good! That’s very good!

I had this number 364 since a long time. One post per day. Seems very easy and doable but I couldn’t. Now, let’s not go to the reasons. Though they are genuine, I don’t want to fall back on them. For me, I didn’t do means I didn’t do. I wouldn’t justify by giving reasons. And putting the blame on “unforeseen pressing and unavoidable circumstances”.

But now, that target is reached.

Don’t assume everything was “perfect” by way of circumstances. No! What has been happening all these years, happened this year too. I Had the same reasons this year too. And yet, I could do it. And therein lies my joy and happiness. Not that I did it. But the fact that I could do it in spite of all the circumstances.

So, what is there for us to learn from this experience?

One, no matter what, we can “DO” our bit if we think of “how to think of” and not waste time on “why did this happen” etc stories.

Two, there is scope for improvement however good we do in whatever area it may be.

Three, never stop when you reach the goal. See if the goal can be pushed further and go that extra mile. You’ll feel proud of that achievement of yours. Your confidence and self-esteem are dependent on your such actions and choices in your life.

Can you throw some here?

How are you going to apply this in  your life?

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Karma healed – in the real life situations

 

Read  https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/11/me-my-guru-on-forgiveness-and-punishment.html and 

the previous post to know one more similar case. 

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Karma healed – in the real life situations

This case is similar to the previous post in more than a few ways. Our RC (Reiki channel) tagged (situation is so similar) along with her friend to an astrologer. Out of curiosity of her friend our RC’s astro chart was also read and the astrologer said “I am sorry. You must have had such a tough 7 years (and he gave a list of losses and sufferings that she had suffered). But don’t worry. If you start doing the Pooja that I tell you, things will work your way in just a year”.

Our RC was more than taken aback, surprised and relieved. She said “Thankyou Pandityji, but I faced none of the things that you mentioned”.

That Pandit was confused. He rechecked and he couldn’t accept that what the RC was telling was true.

This RC came to me and with eyes filled with gratitude said “Now my friends are confused as to how I escaped all this troubles?. Thank you for all the healing. Now I understand why you insisted that I visit you regularly all these years and sit in sadhan along with a few others who too would be for similar reasons.

Few more words were shared. But that again is immaterial here. So moral of the story:

In both cases, they had their astro-chart to tell their destiny. They had their reality that was way away from ‘destiny’! This proves how healing heals our karma.

But that doesn’t mean Reiki, me or God are answerable to your demands and accusations.

Reiki decides how to heal, how much to heal and what and when to give. We can just do Reiki – not condition it with our expected results.

Both had similar ‘grace healing experience’ and yet one’s attitude was well, you name it whereas the other was filled with gratitude.

Our response to the result of healing is the seed of the karma that we plant and its fruit we eat at a later date. When we plant trees we are filled with ego, arrogance, stubbornness and a feeling of entitlement. But, when the time comes to bear the consequences, we are terrified. Then we want ‘grace’ and Guru working her magic. Our attitude is our curse. It is our blessing. It depends upon how we use it. Be aware of it and make it so pure that it becomes our “Sri Rama Raksha”.

Concluded....

# karma, destiny and fate, healing its impact, ego, surrender, trust, faith, grace, 

also read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/07/a-blessing-or-curse.html 

What are the understanding, observations and experiences you had on this topic...

share if you care....

Karma healed – in the real life situations

 

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Karma healed – in the real life situations

A huge lorry from nowhere came and rammed our car. They both were shaken. They cancelled the trip and came back. Now, my question to you is when I had done Reiki as told by you, why did our car get hit so badly?”

Most of the students accuse me or Reiki in the guise of “asking doubts”. This reflects their ingratitude, lack of clarity to perceive right and some more wonderful attitudes that if said would hurt the one concerned.

Here:

a.Life was saved and yet there is no gratitude. Of course, the sentence would start as “Yes, yes, I am grateful but…..”

NO, YOU ARE NOT GRATEFUL HERE – know this once and for all!

b.Even driver was not hurt.

c.One who was to die or be in a vegetative state for the rest of his life did not have a scratch on him and yet – only demanding explanation??!!(REALLY????)

d.There was a small tea stall and a tree where the car broke. If this is not ‘grace beyond measure’ – what is?

Let’s understand karma and destiny – see healing does heal our karma. Use sadhan required to heal the particular situation. For some, one week of healing gives results and to some it takes 10 years. And others anywhere in between.

If you desire, heal till the desire is fulfilled – however long. No one is answerable just because you are desperate for your wish to come true!

The event may still happen, but the karma will be reduced considerably by healing. Do not cry for the the car gone.

Well, this was my reply for the car “You’ve been complaining about this car since a year. Go and buy a brand new car with insurance money”.

This lady was the one who changed cars almost every year. So, where was the loss?

Such is the power of healing.

Such is the Grace of the Divine.

Concluded.....

Read the next post to know one more similar case.

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# real life karma healing, healing and its effect on our karma, karma, destiny and fate, ego, ingratitude, attitude, pain and suffering, 

also read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/07/blessing-that-turned-into-curse-me-my_27.html 

I am not giving 'pointers to understand' in this topic as I felt it was very clear and self-evident.

In case you didn't understand anything ask...but before read the links given...most of your questions are answered there already....

So, what did you understand till now about healing and its impact on our fate and destiny?

Karma healed – in the real life situations

 

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Karma healed – in the real life situations

Our RC was just a tag along with her friend. But her friend asked the ‘Sidhanthi’ to also look into her friend’s (meaning our RC’s) astro-chart and predict her future. He said with a certainty “Your husband is to meet with an accident in a month (he even gave a date) and he’ll become paralysed. He’ll live a vegetative life. This is a better possibility if some miracle happens as he is destined to die that day in that accident.”

Now our RC (like most of you logical ones) came straight to me shouting as she opened the door “Maam, I’ve been doing healings since a year and yet my spouse will be in vegetative state for rest of his life. How can Reiki do this to me? What is the purpose of you teaching us Reiki?” and the words continued which I don’t want to disclose now (or ever!)

I made her sit, have tea and found out the happenings. I simply said “I’ve been asking you to do healing since a year now and you’ve all sorts of excuses to not do that. Yet, forget all that now and start doing healing from today without fail”.

She started doing. The day after the ‘appointed day of the accident to happen’ (as per Sidhanthi) she came to me and said “My spouse was to go to Bangalore on some work in our car yesterday. En route, his car gave trouble. The driver stopped the car and started checking the car. He told my spouse “Sir, it seems to take some time to fix it. Go and have tea sitting under the tree there. I’ll call you when the car is fixed”.

My hubby did as told. As he was served tea, he felt even the driver should drink before continuing the work. He called the driver and asked him to drink tea. The driver came, sat down and started drinking tea.

A huge lorry from nowhere came and rammed our car. They both were shaken. They cancelled the trip and came back. Now, my question to you is when I had done Reiki as told by you, why did our car get hit so badly?”

Contd.....

# real life karma healing, healing and its effect on our karma, karma, destiny and fate, ego, ingratitude, attitude, pain and suffering, 

also read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2015/04/fate-how-it-works.html 

Share your experiences of the similar kind of healing that you have experienced in your life - how you overcame your fate with healing.....